Guys, especially, can you tell us if this is a true saying? And let me know your status (married, single, divorced, dating...)
2006-10-10 08:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to add that I didn't need advice for my own relationship, I was just asking this question to see what people generally thought.
Thanks for all the responses!
2006-10-10 09:09:13 · update #1
Not in my case. I have stayed faithful to the wife even though sex is once every 3 months if I'm lucky. I feel I also cheat on my kids if I find another woman.
2006-10-10 08:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating and have been for the past year with the same woman. I have absolutly no intentions on ever cheating on her because I am truly in love with her. To answer your question, if he's not sleeping with you doesn't mean he's sleeping with someone else. Someone jaded might say that he is but the same can be said for women. If there are problems in a relationship (ie., sexual, intimacy, etc.) both partners need to discuss them. Communication is far more important in a healthy relationship. How can you honestly say you know where or who your partner is sleeping with, unless you talk to them or find out for sure? So the saying, "If he ain't sleeping with you, he ain't sleeping alone", is not necessarily true.
2006-10-10 15:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How base to believe that if a man isn't getting sex from you, he must be dogging after another woman?
To make a more informed opinion, more details would be needed. How long have you guys been together? Have you talked about having sex and decided not to? Etc, etc.
2006-10-10 15:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an old wives tale, but it is true. Think about it, if you are not sleeping with the man, where and what do think he is doing? He IS getting from another! Open your eyes babe
Divorced a cheater
2006-10-10 15:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of the time, that if he is not sleeping with you, that is because he is getting it someplace else...I am engaged and have no idea why that matters...
2006-10-10 15:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, i'm not a guy but they are cheaters
2006-10-10 15:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too generalized.................But ask yourself is there a reason,maybe it's you or maybe he has a problem . Talk to him
2006-10-10 15:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by yellow b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not always.
2006-10-10 15:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wahrsuul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋