I am 25 and have been married for almost 7 years I have 3 children and a stay at home mom.I find it very difdacult to make friends. My husband and I are close but it is not the same as having a day out. What can I do? I have tried people my age their out clubbing and I just don't do that.I have someone all ready what do I need to go there for. The ones that have just got married don't want to go out. Where are all the good friends?
2006-10-10 08:02:48 · 13 answers · asked by roni_lane81981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being with your children aren't a bore it is very fun and I love it. It would just be nice to get away and talk to other adults so no children need reply
2006-10-10 08:09:55 · update #1
Being with your children aren't a bore it is very fun and I love it. It would just be nice to get away and talk to other adults so no children need reply
2006-10-10 08:10:21 · update #2
Try being a loudmouth. I am and I make friends everywhere I go. Walmart, gocery store, bank. I'm always talking to anyone who will listen and people like that. They laugh with me and they say I have a hillbilly accent.
2006-10-10 15:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start off bye saying that it must have been true love if you married at age 18. That's something i would never do. But never the less try taking your kids to the park or day care and start up a conversation with another parent. Best of luck to ya.
2006-10-10 15:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I too have no friends. The ones I used to have just go to clubs, bars and get drunk. I haven't had an outing with a friend since I got married. i have been to baby showers and bridal showers but that just isn't the same. maybe one day we will meet and we can go shopping together. you can reach me thru yahoo messenger.
2006-10-10 15:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find my self having the same problem i am 25 soon to be 26 and i have been with my husband for 11 yrs and have three children i don't know were your from but if you ever just wont to chat your more then welcome to im me at tazz1042006 ok and best of luck with finding a good friend .
2006-10-10 23:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by kristy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can join a church and meet other women thataway
you can meet people on myspace
make jello and have a neighborhood party
attend more social events
go to back to school night and meet other moms there
or you could just start up your own site (like eharmony.com) for women in desperate need of some female companionship. you can try and match people up with their compatible best friend! wow, its ingenious! if you dont try it, i will!
2006-10-10 15:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to cultivate friendships. are you ready to spend some time on understanding new friends?
you can try contacting some of your closer classmates? did they drop out of your life because you were busy with married life?
how about your neighhours? or kids' classmates' parents? perhaps you can trying making small talk first.
be patient.
2006-10-10 15:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here i can't find time to make friends my 9 months old baby and my husband and all the house clean takes up all my time
2006-10-10 15:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a church , they have on day a week where all the ladies
go out for lunch. They even daycare.
2006-10-10 15:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must find somebody you have similar activities, with who you will like to talk and to laugh, but your best friend must be your husband.
2006-10-10 16:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Oliver S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try be naturelly be sure one day you will meet your best friend
i was like you and last year i meet my best friend she was whit
me in the same class
2006-10-10 15:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋