phone number to call him. The reason was because I wasn't giving him enough attention that week because I was stressed out over having a cyst on my ovary that was possibly causing pain during intercourse. I told him I needed to find out what was going on first before we have sex again. So I had his password from myspace and decided to look at it and found out that he was talking to a girl that wanted just sex and nothing more.....he didn't cheat but it sounds like he was about to until I confronted him.....should I break up with him or give him another chance? He says he has changed for me because he loves me. In his past he has cheated on almost all his girlfriends and they have cheated on him too...
He is begging me to stay with him because I have made him a better person. He use to do drugs too. Help!!
2006-10-10 07:54:42 · 22 answers · asked by ~MEEEOW~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i honestly think that he has cheated before and he has you labeled a sucker. Once a cheater always a cheater. He has no respect for you and your health and the relationship if he is gonna cheat on you while you are going through a medical emergency. I would reccomend sitting him down and telling him that you dont appreciate it and you are hurt and dont trust him. You need to be with someone that is gonna support you through the good and the bad. He is an adult and needs to act like one. Honestly you can do so much better. If he loved you he would not of "almost" cheated....to be honest he already did....he may not of slept with this girl but the intention was there so there for he cheated. Find someone that is gonna treat you with the respect you deserve. if you wanna chatr more evilsheera@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 08:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about the cyst on our ovary. If I were you I would confront him to find out if he did have sex with this chick. If he says he didn't then believe him and move forward with your relationship. If he did then you should break up with him because you deserve better than someone who would cheat on you because you are having pain during intercourse. If he really likes you then he would wait for you.
2006-10-10 08:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by babygirlseck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont make an excuse for him. During the week you mentioned he needed to be thinking about you and not about his needs. Poor baby didnt get the attention he needs for a week, aww poor boy. That alone tells me he is selfish and if he has cheated in the past then you need to be carefull. Only you know if you should give him another chance but if you do just be carefull. As far as him changing for you that is not good, he should feel like he can be himself with you.
2006-10-10 08:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the answer you want, but it's up to you whether or not he gets a second chance. Personally, I would tell him to get lost. Sure, he's going to beg you to say, he thinks he can manipulate you. He's obviously good at taking advantage of women.
It does concern me that you had a medical condition and instead of showing concern, he runs off to find another girl. This shows me that he cares more about his needs than yours. I lost an ovary to cysts and know it can be very painful and scary. It's wrong for him to turn his back on you like that.
2006-10-10 07:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sativa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! That's funny, that's what they ALWAYS say. Yeah, they always "change" when they get caught cheating. Hun, you deserve better than a guy that will cheat on you the first second you can't have sex. Also, you have a possibly serious thing going on with your body, and he's just worried about getting some nookie, instead of being worried about your health. What a jerk. Screw him, and find someone else that will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Let him have his myspace fling.
2006-10-10 07:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONLY SEX!???!
RUN to the exit. He made himself a better person to keep you, and now he is slipping into his old ways.
Change what you can--YOUR address!!
He should be supporting you and loving you and talking nice to you--especially if you are ill==not spending time with ANYONE ELSE for any reason.
You almost sound like you think it is YOUR fault--It is HIS fault. He can behave-regardless of the reasons not to.
He is a selfish child and will only get worse-if you tolerate it.
He can stay out of drugs by himself too. You don't need to be his mommy. You need a partner-not a prject.
Get out now!
AFTER he has SHOWN that he is behaving==by himself--you might revisit him.
Sounds like you could do better by yourself, honey! I know it is a turn-on to FIX someone you think is fixed because of you--what a high--but it is short-lived. Try getting a guy who is ALREADY who you want== and you don't have to prop him up and make excuses for him. Someone you are PROUD of loving.
Good luck!
2006-10-10 08:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nut if you stay with this person... he couldn't wait to find out if you were okay or not? How is this person going to treat you when things are really rough? What if you had to go in the hospital for a long time? I'm sure he would not be taking care of you --- he would be taking care of himself that is for sure. Sorry but you are straight up stupid if you stay with this guy or think he's not going to cheat on you.
2006-10-10 08:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by uke9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I can tell u this... cheating is a habit for guys. I is like it comes naturally to most of them but that doesn't mean that u should be taken for granted. I u stay with him he wil get the idea that u don't really care if he sees other people. So I say, just drop him down the rivver bank!!! I mean u can find guys ANYWHERE, like they just come and go. Need more help? born2_b_smiley@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 08:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by lick_me_babi3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that maybe you two need to take a break from one another. You need to deal with what is going on with your body and he is being selfish by being tempted to cheat. This is the time to take care of you and to do you. Don't stay with him just because you are afraid that he might start using drugs again. Be strong and make him realize what he is loosing.
2006-10-10 08:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't stay with someone just because you are worried what will happen to them. You must want to stay with your boyfriend. He does not seem to be trustworthy if he can't wait for a couple of weeks while you see about your health before he goes out looking for someone to sleep with. Make sure you know what is going to make you happy and then make a decision as to whether you can deal with this guy or not.
2006-10-10 08:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋