Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I went on a blind date with a guy on friday, and he was nice and all, but there was no connection (at least on my part), and he just wasn't what I needed (see my question about date talking on the phone). He said during the date that he wanted to take me to an event the next day, and said he'd call me. When he called the next day, I said thanks but I was busy for the next few weeks, and that I'd call him if I wanted to hang out. To be honest, I don't plan on calling him. Should I call him and say so, or just not call and let things lie? I don't want him to keep calling, or wait by the phone for me to call because I don't plan on it, and I'm interested in someone else. Should I be up front with him, or just let it be?

2006-10-09 01:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Singles & Dating

my friends knows this guy for about 2weeks now and they have been seeing each other every day she sleeps ova at his place and he visits her place, i dont want my friend to get hurt . so last night when she came home she told him (on the phn) that she loves him every ,very much dont you guys think it is to soon? or maybe i am just from the old school. do you think that she is heading for disaster? oh yes dont forget this guy is legally seperated from his ex-wife so u tell me what advice can i give my girl friend?

2006-10-09 01:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 (almost 26) and have recently got into a new realtionship. My new Beat of a boyfriend is only 18.(ladies if you saw him, you'd understand)

We're both pretty much on the same wave-length as i'm not your typical 26yr old and he's at times pretty mature for 18.
To me age isn't a problem its the person that matters? However I think my family members are a little bit miffed on the situation, any comments??
Many thanks
Em
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2006-10-09 01:51:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 01:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

any ideas on how i can build a better self - confidence. I am not fat i weigh 58kg i am 1.56m
every one tells me that i am pretty but i don't believe them. it is creating problems in my marriage.

2006-10-09 01:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by sweet - angel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 01:49:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother had me when she was 14. I was adopted at 2. Although i have a loving family i still feel like i'm only half a person, i'm desperate to find out more. A few months ago i mangaed to track my real mum down. I rang her up and we spoke. She put me at ease and suddently everything was great. I found out i had a sister and that they lived not that far from me. Then one day she txt me saying that her partner didnt like the idea of me and her having a relationship. he asked her to choose and she chose him. To be honest what did i expect. She gave me up becase she had no choice, now she has a choice and she still doent want me. I'm so angrey about the way she has treated me.

2006-10-09 01:48:55 · 17 answers · asked by moopoppet 4 in Family

so i think most of you have heard of the msn virus right? well today my friend, she got the virus and she passed it to me,well i didnt notice it was a virus so i opend her link and my computer obviously caught the virus. Anyway the bad thing about it was the file was automaticaly sent to my msn list contacts and one of them was my cousin. She thought i was sending her some ''pictures'' so she opend it and the computers in her work place all caught the virus and the bad thing was she was told not to come to work the next day. Now i dont know how to face her,well she's overseas from where i live but how could i talk to her when i made her lose her job? I wanna say sorry too.

2006-10-09 01:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by LES MiZeRaBLE 4 in Family

.....if i told you i can lick the cream out of an oreo without taking it apart first.....would you say i have talent..???...lol....
...play nice now....just trying to spread some humor......

2006-10-09 01:46:13 · 21 answers · asked by juslookin 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 01:46:01 · 28 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with my ex classmate,known him since sec sch.tho we got distant during our grwing up years(in my late 20s now),but wen we catch up agn,we alwys managed to pick up from where we left.we're close.somehow i began to fall for him,now tat we're both adults.We started to get intimate(no sex tho),wic we never did before last time.but im not sure if he likes me.is he just using me out of lust?i didnt ask him how he felt towards me bcos im afraid to knw.but i do knw tat he used to hv a crush on me in sch last time,if tat still counts.im so insecure rite now.we dont go out on dates.but we mit abt once a wk for a short while & tats wen we will get comfy & cuddle up.its been like this for a year plus now.do u think he have feelings for me?

2006-10-09 01:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by pristine 2 in Friends

2006-10-09 01:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Friends

I have just entered a relationship with a man and he is really great.... We kiss and stuff, but the other nite he stopped during a make out session and said he has feelings to sort out... What am i supposed to do?

2006-10-09 01:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about a month. He sent me his myspace page so I could hear a song on it. I've noticed that he talks with other women on there...whats up? Is it just a little flirtation going on or do guys really take it seriously?

2006-10-09 01:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u prefer to be? single or married?

2006-10-09 01:41:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel depressed that I have big breasts because I cant wear any thing suitable
and I can't sleep also some time I have a backache moreover I can't play anything because I have some thing in my body prevent me to do any thing
im really sad

2006-10-09 01:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by nansy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's like 20 yrs older then me.... im 26 and she's sucessful, beautiful, etc... we've exchanged a lot of glances at this local bar we go to.... would you woman at least be flattered if a younger man was to hit on you and is there even a shot of more??? please get back or email me @ tightlinefishing22@yahoo.com

2006-10-09 01:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex bf broke up with me around a month ago now. At first he was really horrible but now we are friends but when he is with me he wants more than friends. We both stayed around our mates house and he was paranoid i was talking about him. We both stayed in a bed in his house and he was all over me. I didnt have sex with him though. He says he still has feelings for me but doesnt want a girlfriend. He knows me and him could work again and be happy but right now he doesnt want a girlfriend! He wants to see me and kiss and cuddle me becuase he says he likes that and it does feel right. It does for me to but i want it for the right reasons Please help because i am starting to dislike him being likle this I dont kno why he cant just make his mind up x we were together year and a half

2006-10-09 01:37:40 · 9 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 01:36:51 · 13 answers · asked by zoolihoi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not everything,but i feel she's hiding a lot from me..i don't know if i can trust her nor forgive her...help

2006-10-09 01:36:46 · 24 answers · asked by no name 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my current partner now for 13 years, married for 8. I have two children from a pervious relationship and one younger child from my marriage. Over the past 3 years my marriage has been on and off the rocks. My partner is a good man but love has gone for me. I know marriage is all about working at it but it feels i'm the only one doing all the work, my husband just takes each day as it comes. We have talked about this in the past and i'm sure he knows how i feel but he chooses to ignore it. I've been seriously considering leaving him and start a new life on my own, as i feel i'm already on my own anyway. The only reason that stops me leaving is because of finances. My husband has his own business and has supported me and my children for the past 8 years. I wouldnt know even where to start. So what do i do? Do i carry on in an unhappy marriage or do i throw the towel in and start all over again?

2006-10-09 01:36:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 01:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by aj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an 11 weeks old son who's father does not want him. ( The father was originally very happy about baby but he "changed his mind" when I was about 6 months pregnant. He has never seen him, acknowledged him or heard him gurgle) What makes a man come to this kind of choice? And before I am told "it must be me", HE made the choice I did everything I could to try and involve him. I am just trying to undrstand what makes a man behave this way.

2006-10-09 01:34:27 · 28 answers · asked by Marlene 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know she loves me, but I think she has an itch to stray. She's kept it under control for two years but nearly didn't this summer. I think about it alot but wonder if the super great time we have is better than the anger I feel about what she nearly did. Should I put it behind me? I can. I would marry her if I can resolve how I feel about this. I think she can be loyal to me.

2006-10-09 01:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Goodguy99 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 01:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by Mary D 1 in Family

If so how do you feel on the morning after? Embarrased? Or just another fun night?

2006-10-09 01:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my spouse we have been together for 10 yrs im 33 his 30.He not to long ago was put in prison for five years. Of course my intentions are to wait for him. Its been 7 months now I have not cheated on him. But I think about my age im 33 by the time he gets release ill be 38 Im dont know what can happen in between.I am human and feel lonely at times but I love him and go into a stage of confusion. especialy when his expecting me to wait. Dont get me wrong I want to unit with him again when he gets out but I also need acompanionship. thow My intention are to wait Can some one help me on this one..

2006-10-09 01:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by huera 1 in Singles & Dating

i have told a girl that i love her and she denied ... and now i feel like that she likes me .. and i feel like that i wanna to give it another try .. yes she speaks to me and smiles at me .. and in the other hand she has a wedding proposal which is due to .. but she hasnt got engaged yet before that i wanna to tell her how i feel abt her this time .. coz i am in love with my friend .. and she knows that .. but she does not show her feelings for me and which is hard for me to take it out from her heart .. help me please

2006-10-09 01:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by Tariq J 1 in Singles & Dating

What goes through a mans head when a partner says 'I LOVE YOU" for the first time ?
Is there ever a right time to say it ?

2006-10-09 01:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by Not_a_toothless_pirate 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

He asked me where I wanted our relationship to go and how far ahead I have thought about us. I have thought about us and where we'll be a couple years from now. We have both been majorly hurt, engagements the went straight to h*ll, he's lost everything that he had to an ex. I'm not that type of girl though. I don't want what enyone else has. I told him this. I asked him where he wanted the relationship to go, and how far ahead he has thought of us. He said the he has thought about us WAY in the future, and wants the relationship to go where ever I will allow him to take it. He hasn't told me that he loves me yet or anything. But he does call me "my love" sometimes. Do ya'll think that he's falling in love with me and is scared of me??

2006-10-09 01:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating