my friends knows this guy for about 2weeks now and they have been seeing each other every day she sleeps ova at his place and he visits her place, i dont want my friend to get hurt . so last night when she came home she told him (on the phn) that she loves him every ,very much dont you guys think it is to soon? or maybe i am just from the old school. do you think that she is heading for disaster? oh yes dont forget this guy is legally seperated from his ex-wife so u tell me what advice can i give my girl friend?
2006-10-09 01:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we have to let our friends crash and burn. No matter what you say, she's going to do what she wants to if she really believes she's in love with this guy. You know it's headed for disaster, and to be honest, it sounds like that to me too, but she needs to find this out for herself. Just be a good friend to her, and be there for her when this all falls apart. Try to be understanding... if you thought you were in love with someone and one of your friends told you he was no good - would that stop you from seeing him?
2006-10-09 01:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't need any advice but you do, yes fair enough you are worried about your friend, but maybe she believes in love at first site. You say she sleeps there alot? which means she has been with him quite abit more than someone who is going out with some one for a couple a months just on dates. It is very possible that he loves he too. Not all guys are with you just because they want to use you. Let her be, and if her relationship falls apart, well it was better for her to learn in her own way.
2006-10-09 08:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by laaaaaalaaaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you are all old enough to be married, then none of this is any of your business. Honestly, at first, I thought this was a teenager asking a question, til I read on. Why don't you get your own life lady? If you are a real friend, just be there if something does go wrong. Until then.. back off. It's got nothing to do with you.
2006-10-09 08:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Say what you like, she isn't going to listen! Sure you mean well but you have to let her get on with it. Just don't let her forget that you and she still have a friendship to maintain. If it all goes pearshaped then she will need your shoulder to cry on, if not, you may be bridesmaid!
2006-10-09 08:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend it is to soon for love and that what she is probably felling is lust and not love. you need to be together for a while and go through some good times and bad ones to know if you really love someone.
2006-10-09 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many times you try to give him an advice, he won't listen...
We're humans and we gotta learn everything by ourselves, even stuff that you already know...
2006-10-09 08:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Angelo C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you it is too soon and the fact that he is just separated means she is looking to get hurt. tell her to take it slow.
2006-10-09 08:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to move cautiously to avoid a great emotional downfall.
2006-10-09 08:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think shes moving to fast,but she wont listen to you,so if it lasts it was meant to have been if not then she will have learnt from her mistake
2006-10-09 09:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by macguyver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they get along well i think it`s OK.
2006-10-09 08:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by coognjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋