Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

i broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago and 1 month ago went out with a guy i kept clicking with in passing from work, who had asked why my boyfriend wouldn't marry me, and had flirted with me for 9 months. I am 25, he is 34. Date went great,we got to know eachother real fast, showed me pictures of his family. I kinda tried to have a rebound fling with him but when we got to it, he just wanted to cuddle,and me to spend the night (I wouldn't) We've had 20 phone conversations and 2 dates, but my ex still lives with me and it bothers him. (Lease, and neither of us can afford to get roomates and new places) But It's not like I was trying to start anything serious, he said more stuff like that. After our second date he said to wait a month til he gets weekends off like me and he keeps asking when my ex is going to move out and says he'll have time on his vacation (Thanksgiving) and that he hopes to hang out w me then. I dont get why he need a break when I want sex and then keeps calling.

2006-10-09 02:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do they do so?
What situations make them do so?

2006-10-09 02:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Singles & Dating

When I sleep, I'm dead to the world...a 747 could land in my kitchen (not that my kitchen is that big) and I would never know. This annoys my wife to no end! "Why do I always have to get up with the kids?", "Why don't you move when I tell you to stop hogging the bed?", "Wayh, wayh, wayh?"

Is there a way to sleep 'lighter'? I don't think so, but maybe someone could enlighten me!

2006-10-09 02:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by a kinder, gentler me 7 in Marriage & Divorce

he always makes me feel younger and smaller.I'm still in highschool and he's in college.he is treating me like his lil'pumpkin'.

2006-10-09 02:39:11 · 26 answers · asked by andruzza 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I help my husband break the news to his buddies. THey are always calling to come over and have a few beers. Play golf? etc....he has been sober for 1 week. How do you tell your friends so they will stop encouraging this behavior to stop talking about having a cold one?

2006-10-09 02:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by 47124785262 1 in Singles & Dating

i just want to be able to sent mess to other and to receive them also set up as my old set up was like.

2006-10-09 02:38:13 · 1 answers · asked by wayne dave 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 02:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 02:37:21 · 8 answers · asked by rebelbabi 1 in Friends

Last night at around 9 pm I smelled something burning in our appartment hallway. I went outside, following the smell, to find two guys putting out a fire in our bush. Here's the thing, nobody in our building smokes but one lady and these two guys who came to her house. We have had several run ins with this woman because she has a 3 year old who just runs wild and has even thrown a hunting knife into our yard among other things, so she is some all kind of piece of work. I asked the guys what happened and they say, with cigarette hanging out of mouth, "we don't know the fire just suddenly started". I got my husband and our neighbor who's 7 month old's room is right next to the bush that was on fire, and they came out and looked around for the source and found it to be a cigarette. We called the police, but we couldn't prove it was them. I'm really sick of this woman and her boyfriends and she's married with her hubby in Iraq at the moment. Do you think one of them was guilty?

2006-10-09 02:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 02:36:19 · 14 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been working in the same place for 1 1/2 years, it was initially enjoyable but my boss has a bad reputation for the way he treats his staff, before it was bearable, but now i swear i will either walk out or stab him in the eye with a biro.
I work hard but it's never good enough, he talks to me like I'm an idiot & treats me like a child. he was asked if I would move to another hotel in the chain that is 10mins walk from my house (rather than the hour each way on a bus I'm doing now) & he refused without even telling me!
I was doing very long days for the 1st year (without overtime) & business has decreased in the last few months but he still expects me to pull the same shifts for no reason, even though it means I am sitting around doing nothing & hardly seeing my partner.
My job is quite specialized & it is unlikely that i would get anything similar without moving to a different area - my partner has a son and needs to remain close by in order to see him.
Can someone plz help

2006-10-09 02:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by ladyjinx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, well this guy and I were hitting it off..I thought , we went to the club , which I got him in for free, got him VIP, got him free drinks, and you know got a little drunk and went home together, one thing lead to another and yeah, well I dont think I have to explain it... anyways so I call him the next day and was like well I had fun last night and he was like yeah you got me in free, free drinks and it was cool, I said yeah anything else, and he says I think my silence speaks for that... what the heck does that mean? He had a good time? he regrets doing it with me? what the heck?? HELP!!!

2006-10-09 02:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by samariggs2345 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 02:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....the guy is pretending to be such a player. Whilst he stammered out a few nervous references to us locking lips on Friday afternoon, how distracted he's felt all weekend as a result, and how worried he was that I might have thought it was a big mistake, he then made equal measure of mentioning the number of women (married and single) who make advances to him all the time.

Whats all that about then, is it another part of the game I don't know about? Am I supposed to be jealous? I suppose I am, but the feeling makes me want to run a mile, not cling on harder......???

2006-10-09 02:35:23 · 21 answers · asked by haushinka29 1 in Singles & Dating

Is divorce ok after having kid. What about social outlook for divorce in India or better to be in some other country?

2006-10-09 02:35:12 · 17 answers · asked by hi123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

friends are determined by what factor? duration or feeling or ones limits. how far can one friend go. how does u repair a broken friendship that u have no idea that you have broken it.

2006-10-09 02:34:56 · 3 answers · asked by loner 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 02:34:36 · 3 answers · asked by joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and this guy is 30. I think he's an eligible bachelor, and is interested in getting into a relationship with him

Recently we "accidentally" got too cosy and physical, that we had sex. I commented, "You enjoy having me as a friend with benefits, don't you?" And he replied, "Who knows you might become my girlfriend?"

I don't know what exactly he means. But i'm confused now because he didn't answer me when I ask if he was interested to be with me.

2006-10-09 02:34:07 · 22 answers · asked by gummy 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay. The mood is set. Candles are lit and the wine is flowing. Feeling the moment, you decide to give an exotic dance for your lover. What music do you dance to?

2006-10-09 02:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by 2 cents 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems lately that my fiancee hasn't been interested in sex lately. It's been a week since we did anything considering we used to do it every night. I also noticed he doesn't sleep under the covers, he has been sleeping on top with a sheet. His excuse is that he gets hot. what's up with the sudden change. I've discussed it with him and he says he's just been tired. He used to be tired all the time but still gave me intimacy. do you all think he's losing interest even though we are supposed to be getting married?

2006-10-09 02:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex is a Muslim, while I am a non-muslim. In my country, my son is considered as a Muslim if he is proven as the son of a Muslim by DNA test. And in the Muslim law (which my ex told me), me as being a non-Muslim is prohibitted from raising my son.

2006-10-09 02:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's my cousens, who goes to my school, Best friend. annnnd he lovvvves playing guitar and he's really good at it. Oh and he also is really proud of his music. :) *sigh*

2006-10-09 02:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Katelin C 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 02:28:13 · 25 answers · asked by -'UpEnDi'- 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help me reply this Poem:

My True Love

I’ve waited a lifetime for you
I’ve searched the whole world over,
Looking for your love.
Some days I never thought I’d find you

And I wanted to give up
So many other faces, so many wrong embraces

Trying to find one heart that felt like home to me.

None of them could ever compare to you love,
You are my strength, my joy.
You give me comfort from the storm
You make me smile on cloudy days
You keep me safe and warm.

I would be so lost without you,
Your love is so pure and true
Your heart, so beautiful and kind
Because you’ve walked that long, lonely road
That made you who you are (mine!).

I know it’s been a hard long journey
And it may get harder still
But together we can lift each other
Our strength will get us through
I’ll never give up; I’ll never give in
As long as I have you.

When I look into your eyes
I know that love is real
When you hold me in your arms love,
Nothing else compares
Let me lay here with you forever
And gaze at your beautiful face
And dream of our life together
Lost in your embrace.

2006-10-09 02:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Elsalsis 2 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs men show when they want to marry you soon, and what are the signs when they have no plans on marrying you?

2006-10-09 02:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the hymne is supposed to break .however in some cases it does not exist for various reasons.but does the breaking of the hymne cause pain or severe bleeding?

2006-10-09 02:27:08 · 30 answers · asked by huny 1 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. As of late we have been having some arguments, but that’s all fixed up now. We are in sort of a long distance relationship, nothing major, but she goes to college an hour away.

I visited her this past weekend, and we had a great time. However, when she went to take a shower I was a little nosey. I read in her diary that she had a crush on someone in her class, and in the following dates in her journal she wrote that he is a refreshment of attention, because I’m not there and that she likes him. I also read that she plans to ask him out for coffee.

Should I be worried about this? I kind of hinted towards not cheating on me and everything over the weekend, and on the phone-- yet she swears that she would never do anything like that.

She leaves me messages and texts that she love and misses me so much, but I can’t get over the fact that she wrote that she had a CRUSH on someone else…and that she is interested in someone else…

Am I getting too worked up over this? Should I let her go out with this guy, and not say anything?

2006-10-09 02:26:59 · 11 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

everybody answer this question please?
There is this girl who i know but she rairly comes out i got her number because a friend that we have in common asked me to take her to the train station I took her to the train station but i didnt want to come on so soon I want to talk to her and still have her number should I call her what should I say if i do

2006-10-09 02:26:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 02:26:04 · 8 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has my car and will not return it. I can't call the police (I tried) to report it stolen because I let him borrow it and it is not criminal. I found out he has another girl friend and I now have a STD! Which pisses me off big time. And I think I am pregnant. So Do I let the other woman know of me? Or do I walk away respectfully and let it play out by itself? No rude comments I am a bit stirred up by all this new I just found out.

2006-10-09 02:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by tjnw79 4 in Singles & Dating