Okay, well this guy and I were hitting it off..I thought , we went to the club , which I got him in for free, got him VIP, got him free drinks, and you know got a little drunk and went home together, one thing lead to another and yeah, well I dont think I have to explain it... anyways so I call him the next day and was like well I had fun last night and he was like yeah you got me in free, free drinks and it was cool, I said yeah anything else, and he says I think my silence speaks for that... what the heck does that mean? He had a good time? he regrets doing it with me? what the heck?? HELP!!!
2006-10-09 02:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by samariggs2345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was telling you that there is no future relationship with you he is just not that into you. You moved things too fast. He should have been doing all the accomodating to you. Men don't appreciate anything that they don't have to work for.
2006-10-09 02:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend calm down. Let me tell you something that you should know by now. When it comes to guys they tend not to talk about the emotions and how they feel. So basically you got to go by is voice and his body language. By the way that you described things it sounds like the guy had a great time and was just to speechless to express himself. I suggest that you arrange another date with him and this time let him spoil you. Which he would do gladly. It could also be that he is feeling a bit guilty as you were the one that did all of the entertaining and not him. So call him and set up that date girlfriend.
2006-10-09 09:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking what the heck too. "My silence speaks for that" WHAT? I would have felt the same way. But let me tell you it MIGHT not mean it wasn't good. The best advice I can offer is ask him what he means so you won't have to guest.
2006-10-09 09:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means my dear that you just got PLAYED.
He had a good time yeah. Free drinks, no pay at the club, and sex. You gave him everything he wanted.
Too bad that was all he wanted.
Don't sweat it. Move on. We all have our share of moments were we are misled.
Best regards!
2006-10-09 09:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he had a good, however I don't think he's interested in pursuing the relationship. Unless he's really shy I think he would have at least asked you out again. It sounds like a one night stand to me.
2006-10-09 09:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels a little embarrassed.
That's what I got from it anyway.
2006-10-09 09:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO POSSIBILITIES: ONCE-SILENCE CAN BE CONCIDERED AS AGREEMENT. OR... SILENCE COULD MEAN THAT HE CAN'T SAY ANYTHING GOOD ABOUT IT. WAIT FOR HIM TO CALL U AND DON'T BE TOO PUSHY!
2006-10-09 09:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the sly bloke was only after one thing...you'll probably hear from him when he is horny again...you deserve to be treated better than that...
2006-10-09 09:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he didnt intend for "that" to happen. he was just looking for a good time, and he got it.. and thats it.
2006-10-09 09:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see if he calls you.
If he doesn't..then oh well.
2006-10-09 09:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋