My ex is a Muslim, while I am a non-muslim. In my country, my son is considered as a Muslim if he is proven as the son of a Muslim by DNA test. And in the Muslim law (which my ex told me), me as being a non-Muslim is prohibitted from raising my son.
2006-10-09 02:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you fake it you would probably get caught if he asks for a DNA test. Can you get out of the country quickly? Some embassies might help you because of the situation. Try the Canadian embassy? I think there are organizations that specialize in helping women in this type of situation as well. I would be sure though about the law if your ex told you this. He may just be saying this to scare you?
I wish the best of luck. That can't be an easy situation.
Addition:
I was just trying to find some organizations you could contact but with out much luck right now. Try this link though and see what you could find: http://www.oneworld.net/section/partners/. Go to the contact section if you can't find anything. One of the founders was in a similar situation and they might know who you can contact.
2006-10-09 02:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant fake him not being his son if you take a DNA test it shows who the father is
2006-10-09 09:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuo should not keep the truth from your son. It does not matter what religion the child grow up with as long as there is love for him. IIf your ex does not want custody of the child then does it matter what he says. It is important to keep in touch with your child even if your ex has custody of him.
2006-10-09 09:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by tdkmaximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can unless he becomes suspicious that it is his son and then request dna test.But also what happens when he grows up and starts asking question about his father He could turn his back on you forever.The truth always preveils sooner or later.So what are you gonna do?
2006-10-09 09:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. it depend on you and ur ex how you want to rise your son and your country the law might have law, check it out before doing anything that will only divided your child =(
2006-10-09 09:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS probably true. BUT can you just get along with your husban? and tell him you would like to go shopping in another country for some nice gifts. ANd you need to pick him out a wonderful gift. THEN LEAVE AND NEVER COME BACK AGAIN?
2006-10-09 09:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex lied to you the mother can be non muslim and raise you son... he is just trying to scare you i knoe becuz my dad is muslim and my mom isnt... trust me as long as you respect your son and let him study the muslim religion then you are doin no harm and no one can take your child away tell him it will be sin against himif he takes that boy away from his mother... trust me you have nothing to fear they are just lying to you stay strong and dont give up
2006-10-09 09:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry to say that there is no way u can fake that he is not the father as you said the dna will prove that dont think there is anything you can to vhange that sorry.
2006-10-09 09:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've put all that into consideration before you had a child with him.
Don't lie, nothing good can ever come out of a lie.
You've made your bed now you have to lay in it.
2006-10-09 09:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. you can't.. some things you just have to be honest about.. like the father of your son. think about the future.. if the truth was to come out, then think about how miserable you and ur son will be...
2006-10-09 09:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by holly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋