i broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago and 1 month ago went out with a guy i kept clicking with in passing from work, who had asked why my boyfriend wouldn't marry me, and had flirted with me for 9 months. I am 25, he is 34. Date went great,we got to know eachother real fast, showed me pictures of his family. I kinda tried to have a rebound fling with him but when we got to it, he just wanted to cuddle,and me to spend the night (I wouldn't) We've had 20 phone conversations and 2 dates, but my ex still lives with me and it bothers him. (Lease, and neither of us can afford to get roomates and new places) But It's not like I was trying to start anything serious, he said more stuff like that. After our second date he said to wait a month til he gets weekends off like me and he keeps asking when my ex is going to move out and says he'll have time on his vacation (Thanksgiving) and that he hopes to hang out w me then. I dont get why he need a break when I want sex and then keeps calling.
2006-10-09 02:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't sound comfortable with your situation living with your ex, and is keeping his distance in order to keep it from becoming awkward.
I wouldn't blame him.
2006-10-09 02:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you are amazing!!!! Here is a guy who is serious and you just want a "fling" with???? Dont see the logic! He has bn eyeing you for the past year (9months!) and therefore has seen the potential in you for something serious!
I totally agree with the two ladies - Wittlewab and Lioness and think you should have your head examined!!! Or better yet, tell the guy the truth and let him see what kind of a lady you are - not worthy of his patience and kindness!!!
Gal, this is another door of opportunity that has opened for you YET you are busy looking for a FLING!!!! or are you still thinking you gonna get back with your old guy - If I was him, I wouldnt considering you couldnt wait for the month to end before going on another date!!!
2006-10-09 03:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by clueless j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really nice guy who respects you and wants you for something more than a physical relationship. He doesn't want to get involved with you until your bf is out of the picture. You need some alone time, to make sure this won't be a rebound fling....unless that is what you want.
2006-10-09 02:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..and i thought is only guys who wants to have rebound flings...You should be happy cause this guy really likes you and wants a serious relationship with you and not just a rebound fling. He respects you for crying out loud. And you want a rebound relationship? Hello? I think he wants your ex to move out so you guys can start something real.
2006-10-09 02:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is not sure if you are truly over the relationship and does not want the drama of ex bf showing up with a gun or 4 guys.
2006-10-09 02:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to be serious and you only want to have a sexual fling while trying to stay with your ex. can you blame him for not wanting to have his heart broken? find a more shallow guy!
2006-10-09 02:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame him. I would not want to get attached to someone who is still living with their ex. I believe you when you say it's over between you and your ex, but you can't expect him to believe that!
2006-10-09 02:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋