Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

IM thinking of having an affair i am asking for a friend a male

2006-10-09 03:07:50 · 18 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do. I live with my fiance and sometimes he treats me like his flat mate. I have repeatedly tried talking to him as I feel he takes me for granted. He doesn't really understand why I feel this way. I am getting to the stage now that I have had it! Sex is only when HE wants it and I don't really feel appreciated. Do you think it is me? What can I do!???

2006-10-09 03:07:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if you had a s/o or partner or lover who smoked tobacco and you did not smoke tobacco,

and you were clear you simply DID NOT want to be with a smoker under any circumstances , AND you cared for the person very much and had committed to accepting that person just the way they are but were not willing to give in on the smoking bit - besides some cold ultimatum, how would you resolve it?

2006-10-09 03:07:18 · 14 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said, "go ahead, check" there are no incriminating emails. I looked and found stuff in old folders. (he was cheating on me as well). My question now is, if they also show my boyfriend's best friend being derogatory and cheating behind his girlfriend's back, would you send the emails to her? I feel bad because she is very nice and has no idea.

2006-10-09 03:06:57 · 4 answers · asked by KAR36 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 03:06:48 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

it seems like something's in the air but all of my single friends, myself included, are feeling exceptionally lonely. we are all attractive girls. we are fun, have good jobs, are super down to earth. what's the deal? we go out to bars and clubs and meet people. we meet people at bbq's and football games. but still in the midst of it all feel lonely. is anyone else feeling like that? it's the weirdest thing ever to me.

2006-10-09 03:05:43 · 7 answers · asked by missdesilulu 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful loving boyfriend. He is supportive, kind, the type who watches me sleep and strokes my face - you know the kind. But on my birthday the other night he got unbelievably drunk and not only felt up my friend but told one that he wished I was as sexy as her. He also told the other one that if he wasn't with me that wow she is gorgeous. The problem is I already feel less attractive than them and feel shy about myself and this has completely knocked my self esteem. I have tried to work though this with him as he is devestated and can't remember but I can't bear him to touch me as I now feel completely unnactractive to him....... I do love him but how can I ever trust him again. Help someone........ serious replies only. Thanks you guys xxxxx

2006-10-09 03:05:08 · 33 answers · asked by bubble 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

h*t, I can't resist missing sex once in a while, even during my period I still want to. It is rarely that I'm ok without having sex. I never heard of women going through this stage, I only hear that men are that h*t not women.

Fortunately I'm in a relationship at the moment but what if I break up? I don't want to sleep with many men around that won't be good.

Is my situation normal or should I do something? I feel extra hot especially in the morning.

Don't be rude please, give me serious answers

2006-10-09 03:05:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sure we;'ve all asked a question like this once, or at least wanted to. . .
Honestly, I have lost track of who I am and what I want so greatly that nothing truly makes me happy anymore. . . It's a terrible feeling because I remember being full of such life and passion for life. I haven't had the ambition or even the desire to do the things I love in months. I try to make myself do thing for my sons but, even when I do them, I'm not really happy and typically feel stressed trying to "fake it" and keep up with two young boys on my own that are under the age of 4. . . .I'm not sure when this started. . .I think this extreme unhappiness began when me and my fiance split. . .someone please hear me and lend me some advice as to how to get through this. . . I'm scaring myself with how pointless everything seems to me.

2006-10-09 03:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you feel about that?

2006-10-09 03:04:03 · 23 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 03:03:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, he's trying to get a date to Homecoming, and he asked a girl in school, I believe Friday. She got back to him last night, saying she's going with another guy, who we know pretty well. However, for about a month now, he has been doing "intimate" things with another girl in our school, and she told all of us that they were going with each other. So here is his problem :

Does he believe that the girl he asked is going with this guy, or is she lying to him?

2006-10-09 03:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by BloodyCarrion 2 in Singles & Dating

A man was standing in front of a church, naked, with three packs of cigarettes. He heard some nuns coming by and had nowhere to hide but the nearby bushes. Unfortunately, his penis was sticking out.

So four nuns walked by the bush where the man was hiding. One of the nuns noticed his member hanging out, so she walked to the site and pulled it. With nothing to do, the man handed out a pack of cigarettes.

The nun exclaimed, "Oooh, it's a vending machine!"

Naturally, the other three nuns went over to collect their cigarettes. The first one pulled, and the man handed out a pack. The second one pulled and the man handed out another pack.

By this time, the man had run out of cigarettes, so the last nun pulled on his penis and exclaimed, "Oooh, hand lotion!"

2006-10-09 03:01:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hint: it is not spelled "organism." I have read my women write about the great organisms they have during sex...while I am sure you are likely infested with many organisms, (from all the great sex you are having, with your many, many partners) I'm sure you meant to write about something else...

Also...the word is "mastrubate" not masterbate.

2006-10-09 03:00:32 · 17 answers · asked by Glockmeister 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 03:00:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance's stepson from his previous marriage still lives in the home with us. I am very uncomfortable with this situation. This is "her" son and I feel that every move I make is being monitored and reported back to his mother. This was also the house they lived in and it's bad enough going in behind her let alone living with "her" child. I want him to move out. He is 23 years old and does not contribute to the household whatsoever. He pays no bills & does not help out around the house any . He comes in and out all hours of the nights. You never know when he's going to pop in at any given moment. I am very uncomfortable with this situation. I don't approve of his lifestyle. He goes to a lot of porn sites on the computer & I have a 14 yr old daughter that may see some of these websites. It's just a gut feeling that I have with him. I don't feel it's right. My fiance is trying to move on with his life & I don't feel it includes his ex's children? Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-10-09 03:00:13 · 9 answers · asked by yp_kl_wilson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

even though they know it bothers us or hurts us?

2006-10-09 02:59:55 · 24 answers · asked by Tracy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 02:59:22 · 27 answers · asked by screamingkidz4 1 in Family

2006-10-09 02:59:10 · 1 answers · asked by hemant s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 02:58:59 · 5 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in San Diego suggestions from ladies only please!

2006-10-09 02:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by RON PAUL for President 2008 2 in Singles & Dating

"A proud man is always looking down on things and people; and, of course, as long as you're looking down, you can't see something that's above you."
-- C.S. Lewis

2006-10-09 02:58:34 · 4 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Friends

Des'ree - Kissing You (Love Theme from Romeo + Juliet) Lyrics


Pride can stand a thousand trials
The strong will never fall
But watching stars without you
My soul cries

Heaving heart is full of pain
Oooh, oooh, the aching
'Cause I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing you, oooh

Touch me deep, pure and true
Give to me forever
'Cause I'm kissing you, oooh
I'm kissing you, oooh

Where are you now
Where are you now
'Cause I'm kissing you
I'm kissing you, oooh
...............................
I just loveeeeeeeeeeeeeee it sooooooooooooooooooooo
badddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd
what u think?
its better if u hear the song

2006-10-09 02:57:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here’s the thing my friend and I have know each other for almost a year. I meet him through my best friend, he use to come over and chill when ever he felt like it. Be4 her boyfriend moved in I thought he had a thing for her. Then all of a sudden he started flirting with me he kissed me on the lips at a birthday party. Then the flirting progressed even more, it’s like it came out of no where then I started falling for him and I don’t know how the hell that happened... I called him last Saturday on his cell then he called me back on his friend house phone... when I answered the phone I didn’t say hello but listen to the conversation that he was having with his cousin... he was telling his cousin how much he liked me and he doesn’t know I like him coz imp always mad at him... I don’t know what to do... I like him and he likes me??? Someone please help

2006-10-09 02:57:42 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my guy for 8 yrs. i feel secure with him but we had a talk or an argument (he calls it that) yesterday and things were revealed to me that i already knew but he really didnt give me details at the time about. I don't think that he's happy here. he tells me he is and he is a great guy. he has helped me a lot. he just moved me in 3-4 months ago and things were well but i don't know how to express myself. can't tell him how i trully feel and he feels like i'm not being real with him. i love him a lot. should i let him go for good. let him be happy with someone else. its a trully long story but ladies think about it honestly. i have plenty of issues and i dont need to drag him down. do u feel that i should let him go and i should be alone? if i can't make him happy then i shouldnt be in a relationship at all for a long time after all i am 26 and i look great but i feel conjested with my issues in life.

2006-10-09 02:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Married for about four years and have a beautiful daughter alomst 2 years old. My wife and I constantly fight. It's clear that we cannot get along. Both of us probably agree that if we didn't have a child together we would have left each other long ago. I love my daughter so much. She is everything to me. I cannot bear to live without her, seeing her everyday. I am scared to death that she will hate me or not even care about me, that I'm just some guy and not her daddy. My wife would likely remarry. I'm worried my daughter would think of that person more as her father rather than me. Anybody have a similar situation?

2006-10-09 02:57:06 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 02:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by screamingkidz4 1 in Family

Alright heres the situation....theres a girl I like and me and her know each other but not Tooo well, so i asked her if she wanted to "hang out" and shes like yeah...so i asked for her number and told her i would call, We are planning to go to the movies......Should i make physical contact and grab her hand during the movie...?

2006-10-09 02:56:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 5 mos ago, he was caught having an affair. We hung out this weekend and ran into some old friends; one was a girl that he grew up with. I was fine, didn't think of anyting(infidelity). The older I get the more I love and do for me; He see that I know how to make myself happy. On our way home, he said he didn't feel comfortable talking to her b/c I can be psycho. I said, It's not that I'm crazy, it's the fact you are not "TRUSTWORTHY" he blew up, and went into how he take care of his family and that is all that matters. I said yeah for father side, but your husband skills can use some improving faithfully. We have not talked since. Was I wrong for calling him unTrustworthy, should I have said nothing, and continue him calling me jealous and psycho? I think it's this new found confidence I have found in me and he is used to these women being insecure. Please any advice will help.

2006-10-09 02:56:31 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 02:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by stpete2106 1 in Marriage & Divorce