2006-10-09 03:03:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him for a toke.
2006-10-09 03:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jay
Any person that has an addiction, is not fully available for a relationship.
Usually people who feel the need to get high, are in emotional pain or stress
that they find too hard to handle. There are healthier ways to get help with this.
and although, I will not judge him for choosing this lifestyle.
I ask you to consider if his lifestyle is what you are really wanting in your life?
Do you value yourself to not settle for anything that does not value you?
do you want a parnter that is truly available to you?
so this is not about blame, or accusing him or anthing. It needs to be
about YOU and what you want in your life? Do you truly know what you
want? think about it.
secrets of attraction by sandra anne taylor is the most powerful book
i've ever read- to help with attracting all that you want in your life.
you truly deserve to be valued and respected.
please don't settle.
blessings
willowgreen
2006-10-09 03:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by willowgreen66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't like what hes doin u need to talk to him bout it...if he gets mad and stuff most the time its because he knows ur right but at the same time u kno he doesn't respect what u think is best....in a relationship it takes 2 not 1 to work things out but yah..jus talk to him bout it and see if that helps...
2006-10-09 03:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by best_thing_u_eva_had 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new bf. He obviously doesn't take pride in himself and probably isn't going anywhere with his career/life, so why hold yourself down????
2006-10-09 03:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't mind him getting high a little - but all the time is making your uncomfortable. This shows that you are willing to compromise and he SHOULD be more willing to consider what you are saying.
...if not, it may be time to move on.
2006-10-09 03:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him.. rise above the influence, if he gets high all the time, do you want to be with someone who only aspires to the next time he can get high??
2006-10-09 03:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn him in if he's using illegal drugs because one day you might get caught up in it. Why are you settling for such a weak loser anyway. Have higher expectations for yourself. Stop seeing him too.
2006-10-09 03:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are luck that he gets high....did I hear you saying 'why'?...there many lovers who are so cold...as if one alone while s/he is with his lover....make love to him...and cool him off till next time...for doing that he will love you so much.
2006-10-09 03:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to get him help he might do somethin he will regret
2006-10-09 03:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by LADY Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him a couple of times about it.... then leave him before he drags u to that road with him
2006-10-09 03:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Saed Madanat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋