what are the signs men show when they want to marry you soon, and what are the signs when they have no plans on marrying you?
2006-10-09 02:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
just ask him, he deserves to know what is in your heart, and you deserve the same.
2006-10-09 02:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually if he is ready to marry you he will ask you. Before then, some guys will show it or express it and some guys will not. My husband did not show it until the night he asked me to marry him.
I guess you could say they will talk about the future, they will mention things years from now using "us" and "we". They may even talk about having children or saying things like "we will tell our grandchildren"... etc.. Words that will associate you and him in the future together. It is really hard to tell. Every guy has a different approach and personality.
You can usually tell when the guy does not want that type of commitment. They will back off or distance themselves from you when you mention the future. They will hold back a lot of their emotions or feelings from you (trying not to get to close or to give you the wrong impression). The won't try to talk about the future. Or they will say things like " I like the way everything is now." You can see if they try to commit to other things.
You really won't know until you bring up the subject about it. You dont have to ask him to marry you but just mention the idea or introduce it into the conversation somehow. See what his reactions are. See what he has to say about it.
2006-10-09 02:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sugar you will only know when he asks you. Men dont show signs of their true intentions. You might wanna cuddle around him a little and start a conversation about the future, you and him in particular and hear what he says and how he says it. Test the waters but don't be too direct, you might scare him or force him to do something he's not ready to do and that will lead to trouble.
Good luck!
2006-10-09 03:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hints about marriage or ask you what type of rings you like then your close.
If he cringes at the though of weddings or gets sick when you caught the bouquet at a friends wedding- then not ready.
The only way you'll really know is to talk about it- and if he doesn't want to talk about it- that's a bad sign... he might not be going in the same direction as you.
Me and My FI had a huge talk about it before it happened- but it still happened 6-7 months after the talk. So don't push or rush him if he's willing to at least discuss it!
Also it depends on your age- don't rush it.
2006-10-09 03:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep speaking to him about topic that relate to things like family, kids, settlin down etc...and see how he reacts to such talks...If he is interested about this and also feels that he is capable of startin a family and settlin down in life then u may have what i call as "HINTS" that would help you to confirm it...
But remember this, a guy may be interested in these but it does not mean that he is ready at this moment, maybe he has some other priorities. But he sure is interested in marrying you...so dont lose hope, when he's gotten rid of his issues he wud kneel b4 u n say those beautiful words...
2006-10-09 02:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you call "long term". I would say if you do not know by year three, it's time to move on. Don't live with the dude - it's the old getting the milk for free thing - they get too comfortable.
2006-10-09 12:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know there were signs! If you want to know, ask him. Communication is key, especially for a relationship that might end up in marriage.
2006-10-09 02:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him what his plans are. Don't pressure him, but just let him know you want to know where this is going. If he can't talk about it, then maybe he isn't marriage material.
2006-10-09 03:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he asks you men are hard to figure out but when he starts being more intimate with you that means he's feeling you a little more.
2006-10-09 03:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are not set rules, it is different for every man/woman. You will know when he asks. If you are that concerned about it, maybe you should ask him....afterall, it is 2006!
2006-10-09 02:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My bfs told me straight... i wana marry you... when hes ready he will let you know
2006-10-09 03:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋