I know she loves me, but I think she has an itch to stray. She's kept it under control for two years but nearly didn't this summer. I think about it alot but wonder if the super great time we have is better than the anger I feel about what she nearly did. Should I put it behind me? I can. I would marry her if I can resolve how I feel about this. I think she can be loyal to me.
2006-10-09 01:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by Goodguy99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really love her and you can put this behind you ten give it another shot. Just make it clear to her how strongly you feel about what happened before and you don't want to get hurt again. Who knows things may work out! Good luck :)
2006-10-09 01:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, guy!! If your girl REALLY loved you, she wouldn't have any itch to stray. Do you want to have this kind of thing on your mind 24/7 ? And how do you know that she DIDN'T stray? Because she told you? Obviously, there is a huge trust issue here. Please, don't think marrying her will "fix" her, it won't, not if she is a "strayer".You cant "think" she will be loyal to you, her actions will speak for themselves, and past history is a good indicator of future behavior..Good Luck.
2006-10-09 08:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me love is like a baseball game you get three strikes, so count how many times she struck out of the game. So dont give her an extra one, because if she is not loyal to u after 2 srikes its going to be in no time that ahe does it again.
2006-10-09 08:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by B.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my boyfriend over the summer once because I was trying to get out of the relationship and couldn't tell him. I still loved him, but it was definitely the wrong way to handle things. Talk to her, see if you can find out why she cheated. I hate to break it to you, but a girl that cheats on you is not the girl you want to marry.
2006-10-09 08:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk with her about it. Sometimes women can do things that does not make any sense but if she truly love you she would admit any of her wrong doings and try to make it work. Sometimes we love another person so much we let things they do to us get by but you must make yourself happy first even if it means making a hard decision.
2006-10-09 08:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Island gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to cheat on someone, that means that you do not love them the way that you are supposed to. You might love them, but not be completely in love with them and not enough for it to be "THE ONE". This is something that you need to think about before you commit yourself to her for life.
2006-10-09 08:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl loves me but tried to cheat on me this summer. That is real funny,no one loves somebody and turn around an try to cheat,because if she tried then she cheated,drop her and move on.
2006-10-09 08:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get married this problem should be addresed or it will escalate into something else, I have no doubt that she loves you but it's best to talk about it and to be honest with each other.
2006-10-09 08:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think she can be loyal to u ,then y ask this question??
if this cheating thing keeps happening where's fidelity in the relationship??
2006-10-09 08:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by lynora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a trial separation. If it is meant to be, it will come together and she'll have her head on straighter. If it's not meant to be, then be thankful you didn't make it legal and move on with life.
2006-10-09 08:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋