He asked me where I wanted our relationship to go and how far ahead I have thought about us. I have thought about us and where we'll be a couple years from now. We have both been majorly hurt, engagements the went straight to h*ll, he's lost everything that he had to an ex. I'm not that type of girl though. I don't want what enyone else has. I told him this. I asked him where he wanted the relationship to go, and how far ahead he has thought of us. He said the he has thought about us WAY in the future, and wants the relationship to go where ever I will allow him to take it. He hasn't told me that he loves me yet or anything. But he does call me "my love" sometimes. Do ya'll think that he's falling in love with me and is scared of me??
2006-10-09 01:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds likes he is falling in love with you and wants to be with you. I would allow yourself to open up to him and forget about how hurt your both were. You two are different people now and since you know you two really like each other/love then you two will be more willing to be open. Good. Luck.
2006-10-09 01:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is scared on some level. He may be scared of getting his heart broken if he shows to much feeling at once without being sure of yours. He must have some deep feelings for you if he is having the where do you want our relationship to go and he initiated the conversation. Do you love him? Do you want a permant future with him?. It sounds like you both are being cautious, after all you both have been hurt badly before and that makes you weary, and there is nothing wrong with taking things slow....just enjoy the bond that you are building with each other and go from there. I have always believed after 3 dates you know if you could see yourself with this guy long term or not. I met and married my husband with in 6 weeks. 3 children later we are still going strong, but I knew he was the one I never had any doubt...I just had that feeling that I knew he was the one....so you already know on some level where and how far you want to take this relationship..you just have to trust your feelings
2006-10-09 08:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. He's thinking seriously into the future and willing to take that risk of being hurt again to have a future with you. I was in the same position but my boyfriend and I are doing great and looking into buying houses. If you love this guy and have feelings for him, don't let your past slow you down and hold you back. Be cautious-but not so much that it holds you back. He wants to know how you feel about him and where you want this to go-that is definatly a good sign that he loves you AND is putting his trust in you. It took my b/f a long time to say he loves me, too. But I know he does. Go with your heart
2006-10-09 08:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that anyone who has been hurt is scared in a new relationship.I do not think he is scared of you just scared of what is to come.If he is referring to you as "MY LOVE" I am sure he is all ready in love with you .I would take it to the next level if you are ready for that you know he is so it is not going to hurt either one of you if you both feel the same about each other.GOOD LUCK
2006-10-09 08:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya'l are both going to have to let go of the past or it will slowly crush you both...but it sounds like both of ya'll have love for each other and both of ya'll are scared...
2006-10-09 08:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by turner32542 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u no
2006-10-09 08:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋