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She's like 20 yrs older then me.... im 26 and she's sucessful, beautiful, etc... we've exchanged a lot of glances at this local bar we go to.... would you woman at least be flattered if a younger man was to hit on you and is there even a shot of more??? please get back or email me @ tightlinefishing22@yahoo.com

2006-10-09 01:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Dont do it.She"ll age you before your time.Take it from someone who knows.Im 17 and just went out on a date with a 35 year old and it changed me for life.(that and the drugs may have had something to do with it)

2006-10-09 02:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Toooo Sexy 6 · 0 0

I've gone out with a lot of younger guys. It isn't a bad thing, but I get to feeling awkward. I don't know, I've just never let it last.

When it comes down to it, most couples like that just don't have enough in common to survive past the "honeymoon" period.

I think life experience eventually comes into play and crowds out physical attraction. However, the older both parties are the better your chances of success--a 30 year old and a 50 year old have a better chance than a 20 year old and a 40 year old.

2006-10-09 08:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0 0

Personally, I like younger men. There's a lot to be said for youth. I would definately buy thiis lady a drink, you may even get a dinner. But right now, I would not expect much more. You have to imagine what is going on inside her head. (they'll think I can't find a man my own age, I'm robbing the cradle, he's young enough to be my son.......etc) Take things very slowly, take your time, don't be pushy, and you may be very surprized how this ends, GOOD LUCK!

2006-10-09 08:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by mega-mom 1 · 1 0

Oh well,it depends on her.if she likes younger men like you,there's a possibility that you would get positive reaction from that woman but if not,most definitely she would not entertain you...she will be flattered though, knowing that you caught her attention is already something ...we,ladies were flattered when someone likes us..That's one thing that we can be proud of.Yet,being flattered doesn't mean she will like you in return.The best thing to do is approach her and introduce yourself sincerely to her.With this,you would then find out her initial reactions.Who knows you both have chemistry...There's no harm in trying,anyway.

2006-10-09 08:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by faith 2 · 0 0

Yes flattered, but personally, I would get tired of teaching the younger guys and want an older more experienced man!!!

2006-10-09 08:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0 0

I would not only be flattered I would even consider going out with a younger man depending on his maturity level

2006-10-09 08:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 1 0

Don't "hit" on her, she's a mature woman that is far beyond getting "hit" on. Instead treat her with respect and flattery. Treat her with the sophistication that she deserves and if she digs you the age won't matter. I'm 34 with a boyfriend in his twenties. The age difference has it's sexual perks, but can be trying in other ways..... (no woman likes immature, insecure boys!)

2006-10-09 08:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Pattie T 2 · 1 0

It is VERY flattering when a guy flirts with you, even more so when he's younger. That's for darn sure.

Give it a shot. You might get 'lucky' and if so, congrats.

2006-10-09 08:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0 0

Age is not a factor for the most part. If you are mature, things could work out. It certainly couldn't hurt to talk to her - don't let the age difference affect you. If she is responsive, then ask her out!!! Life is too short - you have to take chances. You won't ever know if you don't try! GOOD LUCK!

2006-10-09 09:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0 0

You should ask her out. I always get hit on by younger men and I would actually go out with some of them if I wasn't married.I gaurantee she will go out with you. Have fun and let us know how it went.
Just be confident and mature.

2006-10-12 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by trixinator 2 · 0 0

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