I went on a blind date with a guy on friday, and he was nice and all, but there was no connection (at least on my part), and he just wasn't what I needed (see my question about date talking on the phone). He said during the date that he wanted to take me to an event the next day, and said he'd call me. When he called the next day, I said thanks but I was busy for the next few weeks, and that I'd call him if I wanted to hang out. To be honest, I don't plan on calling him. Should I call him and say so, or just not call and let things lie? I don't want him to keep calling, or wait by the phone for me to call because I don't plan on it, and I'm interested in someone else. Should I be up front with him, or just let it be?
2006-10-09 01:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy were YOU, would YOU want to be strung along, or would you want HIM to be honest with YOU so that you can move on....Try telling him that you DID have a nice time, but you'd just like to hang out as friends from time to time...he probably won't call anymore.
2006-10-09 02:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, leave it at that, if the guy is that blind to see that a girl doesn't want to date him then he has problems. Most guys when you said you were busy for the next few weeks would have got the hint and went on in their crazy little men worlds.
If he calls back just do the same thing or ignore the call. He'll eventually get the picture.
2006-10-09 01:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume women have a more desirable experience of character and perhaps each and every each and every now and then they don't prefer to be appeared at as 'basic' all using fact they slept with a guy they don't understand that properly; whereareas adult males are only sexy and wanna have intercourse. not possibly particular however. i've got continuously puzzled approximately this myself.
2016-10-19 01:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is the deal don't try to sugar coat things, because is not going to make it any easier for him or for your self, give him the bottom line up front and brake it to him barney style keep it simple stupid, make him clear that you don't want to be with him
he will eventually get over it and both of you can move with your life OK.
2006-10-09 02:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by chemdog23_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel uncomfortable with idea of actually talking to him--leave a voicemail, something like "Thanks, I had a great time, but I don't see it going any further--you're a great guy and I know you will find someone--good luck". Better than to leave him hanging (and you wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't care, kudos to you)
2006-10-09 01:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by silentnonrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he hasn't figured it out and calls again- tell him the truth and you don't need to go into detail= D
2006-10-09 01:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him you've met someone else and you've fallen in love with this other person (even if you haven't).
2006-10-09 01:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be up front. He will get over it soon.
2006-10-09 01:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Karoline P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be up front; waiting will just eventually hurt his feelings.
You or he might be embarrassed, but you save more than you destroy in the long run.
2006-10-09 01:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a wuss, just tell him.
2006-10-09 01:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋