Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

ok a couple of weeks ago me and my fiance were talking on the beep*beep and he started to sound drunk. i asked him if he was drunk and he said no. the next thing i know his friend is on the fone telling me he is past out. the next day he gives the friend his phone and has yet to call me should i dump him its been 1mnth since we last tlkd?!

2006-10-09 04:12:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband spent Saturday watching college football and NHL hockey. That night, I showered, shaved, curled my hair, put on my lacy nighty & went to the LR and said..."I've got the red lights on & I'll do anything you want."
He then watched a 2-hour movie, while I read my book in bed. When he came in the BR, he watched the news for 1/2 hour more. I got really ticked, shut off the lights, and said thanks for nothing.
He feels he did nothing wrong by watching some TV, and that we were going to get to the lovin' eventually. It was already 1:00 am, and I'd been waiting 2 1/2 hours. I feel my special invitation was brushed aside for TV. What I want to know is, was I wrong to get bichy with him?

2006-10-09 04:11:41 · 22 answers · asked by Cynthia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK- I know this sounds completely horrible but we are getting so tight on our budget.... And the wedding is 1-2 hours from our house.. we live in Philly and are getting married in NJ where are families are from. Our home is too far to have anyone over... We are paying for our wedding including the rehearsal dinner. We have 6 bridesmaids and 6 groomsmen plus 1 speaker.... so you figure we have to feed- 28 people. His family has yet to lift a finger to help me... so I don't think they will offer their homes for the rehearsal dinner or any money. Do I have to invite his parents to the rehearsal dinner?
I know they normally are invite but that's because they traditionally pay.
If you think I should invite them do you have any ideas how I can afford a nice dinner that will have to be held in a resturant since no one will offer their home to us? My mother is a No as well but that's because she has a dog recuse center in her house right now...

2006-10-09 04:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I been w/ my gf for an year now. we been having so much issues that relates my ex. the story behind this is i live w/ her, her sis,bro, and 1 other guy. i went out w/ my ex 10-15 years ago and now i see her as my sister and a friend. my gf has hard time accepting this. we argue about it 2-4 weeks and i am sick of tired. i tried my best by making her feel comfy when she comes over and i treat her good to make her feel happy. i have no other ways to make her feel at ease....i really love her and she feels the same way too.. i dont know what else to do. i cant really move out since i dont really have the money too .. i thought about breaking up w/ her but i dont want to loose her.

any suggestions?

2006-10-09 04:11:30 · 3 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 04:10:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-09 04:10:49 · 17 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, (I've known him 4 four years) I just started liking him recently! Were in middle school and he's really popular. But he's really nice to me but some girls he finds annoying. He use to like me in elementary school, I don't know if he still does. Well anyways this girl likes him, and he knows. He also knows I like him but he's stuck on who to pick! The girl has only known him for a year. Please someone help me, should I leave him alone or go out with him?

2006-10-09 04:09:46 · 17 answers · asked by Des 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there just wondered which woman do as it is sucha turn on seeing woman wearing it...... hey there any of you single...lol...

2006-10-09 04:09:40 · 9 answers · asked by bigfella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:09:26 · 30 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

we met on the web (not through a sleazy chatroom; through this website, actually) and we started IMing each other over a month ago. But now she isn't responding to whatever I say to her through IM. What should I do?

2006-10-09 04:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do ladies 18-25 want a guy who spends time on their look, or a rugged kind of look. 00's male or a tough bloke

Whats a good look for a guy?

currently im always just unshaven, hair (little long), drapped behind ears, polo shirt usually, with jeans

im trying to look like boyfriend material, like a good looking guy girls will wanna date, not a slob, but then i dont wanna look like a wuss.

2006-10-09 04:08:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by jewells 1 in Family

He says we are only friends, but he knows that I like him more.

Before, I would be the only one to call him. He said he 'hated talking on the phone'. Even if we got disconnected or had a dropped call - *I* would be the one who had to call back. I'm willing to compromise and choose my battles, so it wasn't a big deal considering he is good at communicating other ways.

Now, I have two other guys I am talking to - and I am honest with him about them.

Last week, I called him and he said "Let me call you back.." I said "Okay..." and he did. No big, we had something to talk about anyway.

And yesterday, I called and no one answered. About 10 minutes later, he called me back. I didn't bring it to his attention or anything - but I was surprised.

Do you think he is just being a friend? or trying to keep my interest?

2006-10-09 04:07:55 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

The guy on Dancing with the Stars! He is soo cute! What do yall think?

2006-10-09 04:07:25 · 9 answers · asked by mstngsally26 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl i'm dating she tells me she luvs so much, but then each time i offend her she will always threaten me, but after will apologise and even will cry . so i'm in a confused state if she really loves me. also, always ask me not to dsappoint her. i am really confused.

2006-10-09 04:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he went out friday night until 4:30 am i checked his phone saturday to call his sister seen that he had called a so called friend at 6:30 pm friday he called me at 7:15pm friday He had told me he had hunted until dark Then sat he told me he had ran into her at the bar!!! dont know what to think

2006-10-09 04:06:38 · 28 answers · asked by treez1976 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what subjuct should i talk about, and what should i say ? to make sure that she is gonna say hi next time she sees me !

2006-10-09 04:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Wolfscar 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has implied that she might be interested in swapping with another couple. I'm not into it, but has anyone out there done it and what has the experience been like.

2006-10-09 04:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by REDRHINO22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend Just ended a 10 month realtionship She broke it off and came back 6 times the 6 months.Each time I get angier.It was great the first 4 months.I have a huge fear of abandonment.She came from 2 abusive marriages,Shes a teacher.Will I always be like this?

2006-10-09 04:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

As far as I knew the groomsmen traditionally come from the grooms side and the bridesmaids come from the brides side. Is this right?

2006-10-09 04:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Weddings

Im sitting here at my friends house and i feel like i have to tell her something really important but im afraid if i tell her she wont want to be my friends anymore. i know what i have to tell her but i dont want her to hate me...im bisexual. should i tell her???

2006-10-09 04:04:56 · 16 answers · asked by Kara S 1 in Friends

Is is weeks, days, hours? What do u miss the most when they are gone?

2006-10-09 04:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live downtown Newport News, Va. and my son's 17 yr old best friend Rashid Coleman was shot and killed by another teenager. My is in pain really needs a change-we all do. I have a daughter that attends VA state and is on the dean's list. We've lived here only one year and i want and out of this area for my 12 and 10 year old.

2006-10-09 04:04:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My b/f has a temper problem...Big time! BUt, he takes it out in me... He doent hit me, but he treats me like i am a stupid b****! i ask him if he is ok once, and he blows up in my face! example: the other day his mother was just yelling at him so much over the phone. When he got off, he went to go take a shower, then came out, got his coat... And LEFT! We were not even at his house, we were at his cousin's. They were not home, so he left me alone at his families house.Then, when i tried to call him maybe 4 hours later, he hung up on me after i asked him what he was doing? Did I do something wrong? What can I do if anything?

2006-10-09 04:04:33 · 16 answers · asked by oochagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Seems to be a lot of KIDS again---grrrr..
Anyone over message me!! supermike80

2006-10-09 04:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by supermike80 2 in Singles & Dating

They spend 2 weeks a month at fathers, this is 2nd year in a row they forgot. Father forgets their birthdays when they are with mom and stepdad. Mom and stepdad have always made big deals out of every birthday. Mom's feelings very hurt. Should we just blow it off? Should we purposely forget their birthday next time? Kids seem to be mad at us and try to place blame elsewhere.

2006-10-09 04:04:18 · 26 answers · asked by TK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I ask this guy out that I like very much! I think I love him but I dont know! Can someone help me please?

2006-10-09 04:04:15 · 9 answers · asked by Courtney Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

Trying to settle an arguement

2006-10-09 04:03:29 · 19 answers · asked by buddy e 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there is this guy who goes to my school and is on the football team, he all ways seems to flirt with me cuz everyone notices even the coaches. I am a trainer not a football player, anyways he allways grabs my towel off my shoulder and "accidently" grabs my boob. or he will get me wet with water and then hug me really close and kiss me on the forehead...was is he showin me?? does he like me or is he just messin with my emotions??

2006-10-09 04:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by re-re 1 in Friends

kisses the nape (back) of your neck. Or better still nibbles on it playfully?

2006-10-09 04:03:07 · 12 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Singles & Dating