he went out friday night until 4:30 am i checked his phone saturday to call his sister seen that he had called a so called friend at 6:30 pm friday he called me at 7:15pm friday He had told me he had hunted until dark Then sat he told me he had ran into her at the bar!!! dont know what to think
2006-10-09 04:06:38 · 28 answers · asked by treez1976 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How about talking to him face to face instead of sneaking around looking at text messages and phone records. So many people resort to technology to ask basic questions and find out things which could be easily done face to face.
Ask or you will never truly know.
2006-10-09 04:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Raide UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may already be cheating. If he hasn't, he sounds like he's close to cheating soon. My opinion would be to have a heart to heart and let him know what you're feeling and going through. Tell him how you miss the good times and hopefully he'll either make an effort to re-connect with you or at least be honest with you.
Even if he hasn't cheated, it appears there are some issues otherwise he wouldn't be out at a bar without you on a Friday night until the wee hours in the morning. If he doesn't make an effort to appease your worries or compromise in your relationship, then he's probably not worth it to begin with. I sincerely hope it works out for you.
2006-10-09 04:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever told a lie to you before? If he hasn't (that you know of) then what ever your heart tells you is probably the truth of the matter. Another thing you can do is be completely up front with him, let him know that you saw that he'd made the call on Friday, and ask him what really happened. If he gets upset and tries to avoid the issue, there is a likely hood he's not telling you the truth. If he sticks to his original statement, then he is likely telling the truth. The course you take from there is up to you. Good Luck.
2006-10-09 04:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Storm Duck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he didn't meet her at the bar since he spoke to her at 6:30. I have no idea what hunted until dark means but its seems he told a lie. Go with your gut instincts. They are usually right.
2006-10-09 04:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAS he hunting 2 legged deer??? Out til 4:30 am- does he usually do that?? Did he come home at 4:30 and wake you up?? NOT good- did he smell like sex or another woman-? that would end it right there- D
2006-10-09 04:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Diane W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not having an affair,he could have arranged to go out with her and not mentioned it to avoid any issues but ended up creating one anyway. Or he is cheating in which case you really need more proof. Happy hunting.
2006-10-09 04:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by greyasiandove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply talk to him about it, because the longer that you leave it before you say anything you will just keep brewing on it and what has happened might have a simple explenation, but the longer you leave it this may get a lot worse than what it has to be.
2006-10-09 04:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need more proof hun keep checking his phone now and again and if u still feel like he is then u really need to tell him how u feel because it will just eat away at u and if he isnt u might drive him to do it i know its no excuse for him but thats men for you
i really hope he isnt but just remember 'what come around goes around' and whats good for the goose and all just remeber to think of urself
good luck
take care
2006-10-09 04:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by flowerpot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.... Let it go...... Well pretend like you're letting it go anyway.... And next time something like that happens pay more attention to detail...... You'll notice how the story changes a tiny bit every time until they're busted...... Trust me they are idiots..... I caught mine this way a million times......
2006-10-09 04:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by gelenachka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to ask him but then how do you justify checking his phone. Is that not a bit of insecurity?
2006-10-09 04:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by themis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋