Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

How has your experience as a couple been when you've allowed another couple in the bedroom? Name some positive/negative (if any) things about your experience.

2006-10-09 04:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by Shining Ray of Light 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHY DO BIRDS SING?

2006-10-09 04:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by bryzxsyw 2 in Singles & Dating

It's such a beautiful day, and I should trim some trees and mow the lawn. Should I put down the bag of cheezy puffs and quit touching myself?
The g/f could mow the lawn after she cleans up the mess I've made from my snacking..

2006-10-09 04:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by thatoneguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean not like I'm so old farty dude, late 20s, early 30s but I find them attractive and I like to look at them when they pass by - is that bad?

2006-10-09 04:48:25 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?

2006-10-09 04:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She used to blow up every 6-8 weeks or so, usually when she'd drink. Then she'd spout her paranoid feelings regarding stuff I've done (or forgot to do) since we've met. Now, understand that my worst offense in this year long relationship is that i said i would take her birthday off of work, and i didn't. So it's not as if there's even a lot to complain about. Hell, i'm the one with REAL complaints.
Anyways, it got to the point where i told her she needed to see a therapist because i was tired of these blowups and losing sleep and then watching her cry her eyes out the next day apologizing. So she said ok. Well, she's been going for a week or two, but now i have a new problem. She's so overcome with guilt over all this that she's crying constantly. I love her completely, and this problem aside, we're a pretty awesome match. I don't want to leave her, but damn, this is getting OLD.

2006-10-09 04:47:08 · 6 answers · asked by nutbastard 1 in Singles & Dating

she changed a lot and she so cold to me after she reallized that I can not support her idea. She loves her instructer in her university. This man has gf already. My friend slept with him many times for one year. She still do it now. But she closed this secret to me. she is very unhappy because this man is not care about her feeling. He also say to his friend that "This girl ran after me.So I must help her about sleeping with her"Now she not trust me. I dont know why? But now every one at her school know this story , This worlds has no secret. I am sad because she is not talk to me and see me as the air. I would like say something that make her feel that i am a good freind to her but she is not nice to me and alway think about sex with this man. i cannot find the words. Can you help?

2006-10-09 04:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by boathouse 2 in Friends

Yeah... it's me who has got an old man for a partner. We've been together for 3 years and it's absolutely great between us, but I am having some major problems with a part of my family accepting that fact (and by this part I mean my aunts, grandma, uncles etc.) and they are being my pain.. My parents know my boyfriend from the beggining and like him. Well, all I'm asking here is: your opinion about that kind of relationship. Go on...

2006-10-09 04:46:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend we've been friends for 2years since i came here in korea.before my life is very peacefully without her.but since we've met my life is very mess,lots of trouble that she made.shes already divorced for her korean husband,yes i know i understand clearly why shes agree about seperate.one day my friend called me and she say that she wants to meet me,i dont know why my friend say that.so we've met at the church and i saw her and a guy just holding hands.and then when i asked her about that guy she said that her boyfriend.for the first time i met her boyfriend i fell bad...so i tell to my friend whats my fellings about her bf.to cut the long story,one day her bf call to me and i didnt answer because its unfamiliar number.then the next morning my friend call me and she has an angry voice,so i ask her why&whats wrong?she told me that her bf tell her that i say to him that my friend has lots of bf although i dont answer.so her bf is telling a lie with her,and he used my named.

2006-10-09 04:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he told me this two years ago. he wanted another woman that didn't want him so he decided to stick around and try and make our marriage work. well, it's not working, i can't get over the hurt he caused me knowing that i am second choice. we still live together because we can't afford a divorce or to live apart, i sleep on the sofa. now heres my problem, i recently met a man and i think we could be happy together but i don't know if it is right to go out with him or not. i really want to start a new life with someone that i can be happy with, but at the same time i feel guilty about leaving my husband, what would you do.

2006-10-09 04:45:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The US media doesn't do this with women of any other race except for Asian women. Most protrayal of Asian women are almost always with white males and sometimes black males but almost never hispanic males. It's kind of funny when the majority of Asian relationships are between Asian males and Asian females. Why isn't this considered a slap in the face for Asian Americans as a whole?
I think the US media which is mostly controled by either Jewish or white males are doing this to control Asian Americans as a whole by dividing them as a group. The media is conditionung how Asians socialize which pretty much results in the relationships disparities between Asians and nonAsians.
Everytime, I write about how the media affects how Asian Americans interact in society, there are a bunch of people who shoot the idea down. There have been tons of studies that proves that the media influences the way people think and how they interact in society.
http://www.troubledwith.com/stellent/groups/public//@fotf_troubledwith/documents/articles/twi_013855.cfm?channel=Parenting%20Teens&topic=Media%20Influence&sssct=Background%20Info

2006-10-09 04:45:57 · 9 answers · asked by sidewinder45 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went with a girl to homecoming last weekend and everything seemed to go very well. Yeserday, while talking to her friends, who by the waqy are really cool and i highly doubt they would lie to me about it, found out that she has been saying **** behind my back and that she dislikes me. Before i blow up, let me say this: I am and honor student and captain of the school swim team. She is not very athletically, socially, and aceademically inclined (to put into nicer words). So basically, I went out with a loser. Before askeing her to homecoming, i went in wiht an open mind thinking that she could be a really cool person if i got to know her. During the time before, during, and sfter the dance, I was reall, really nice to her. I gave her my jacket when she was cold, i was really sweet, and i helped her with things. I also defended her when my friends made fun of her. Her friends think that she is very stupid for doing this, cuz they think im the best shes ever gonna get. WHat shud i do?

2006-10-09 04:44:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-09 04:44:27 · 32 answers · asked by angel13175 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 04:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Just Me 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Actually, i am suffering from lacking of listening and reading skills.
I am unable to listen to other persons words for the longer time..
And also i can't read general news paper or something for the longer time... Long time i mean 4to5 min...
So that others can't able to talk with me...
And also i cant get the knowledge... So please help me from this condition.... Treat me as your Friend....

2006-10-09 04:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by naresh_cer 1 in Friends

I know this girl a couple of years whom I liked a lot and we were good friends too. We live in different cites. Few days ago I went to tell her what I felt and before telling I came to know that she was going around with some one else. I spent few sleepless nights and I thought that I should tell her what I felt and didn’t expect anything form her. I thought she will understand. But she talked very rudely and over conversation turned out rude. She asked me not to get in touch any more or try call or any stuff. My question is did I do anything wrong? I said that I liked her a lot and adored her and expect nothing from her.

2006-10-09 04:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Friends

i have a big problem, because i like this girl and i already asked her and she said no she didnt like me !!!! but the thing is that i gave her a love tap as she passed by me and then like 1 minute later she came back and asked me why i hit her but she said it with a smile and a grin at the same time. then 2 days later she walked by me and dropped off her stuff in her class and then walked behind me and gave me like a soft push and asked me why i was in her way and once again had a smile and grin on her face. Last time i gave her a note and i saw her reading it with her friend and giggling. I am not the most popular boy in school and she is popular. i think she likes me but wants to keep on the low. if she tries to flirt with me should i kiss her, and if what steps should i take in order to kiss her

2006-10-09 04:43:07 · 18 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:42:39 · 3 answers · asked by BENDER IS THE BOMB!!! (Fav show) 4 in Family

and rarely do anything together without the kids! But I'm determined to start a monthly 'date night' and already have several ideas. I looked online, checked some references at the library, and polled friends. Now I was curious if anyone had an idea I hadn't heard of yet. Keep in mind, we're middle class parents of 3 and would like to keep it fairly inexpensive. Maybe under $100 or less? =) A speaker at our local MOPS group had us make a 'date box' where you can draw ideas out of, so I'm trying to fill it up!

2006-10-09 04:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by shellbugger 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:41:22 · 19 answers · asked by GATTI S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the maid of honor at my cousins wedding and my cousin and i are really close because we grew up together and she is like a sister to me but recently since she is in Virginia studying at UVA college taking 18 credits trying to graduate early its her third year she has put a lot of the planning on me.I am in my first year of college and taking 13 credits and struggling because of trying to help her out with planning , go to school, and working for my moms small company . I took three test last week and was unprepared for two of them and may have failed because of this. I also missed my first two quizes in math class and am falling behind in my english/writing class and am feeling very overwhelmed.I dont want to hurt he feeling but helping her plan a wedding for 215 people is getting to me?

2006-10-09 04:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK... so my ex and I, who still love one another dearly and were convinced we were one anothers "happily ever after", broke up shortly after our 1yr anniversary due to a number of factors:
1. We live an hour away from one another
2. We work completely different schedules, and his includes working Saturday nights. Hes in music (the biz, as well as being a DJ on weekends) I'm a 9-5er.
3. I didn't feel like I was getting what I needed (as far as time/attention are concerned), because most of his time is occupied by his job. His mind is always working. I was getting angry and jealous (even though it took me a long time to come to terms with that) and acting out on it, even though I'm not the jealous type.
Theres also a 9yr age difference, but that was never an issue.
So how do you make it work? Any ideas?
it got pretty ugly for a while, and there's a lot of pain, but we jsut started talking again, and both know that we love each other, just don't know what to do about starting over

2006-10-09 04:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by JESSICA S 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody have any experience with this type of visa. I am a British man who plans to marry my American girlfriend and live with her there. We have completed all the forms and was wondering roughly how long it takes.

2006-10-09 04:41:18 · 2 answers · asked by Woods C18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This applies to people who answered my previous question, if you don't have something polite to say just shut your face.

2006-10-09 04:39:37 · 39 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:38:54 · 1 answers · asked by bingungki 3 in Singles & Dating

Is This video cute? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPnIxm1OPgM

2006-10-09 04:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by stormbubble05 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 04:38:02 · 5 answers · asked by zanzabarr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 04:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by dolftweet 1 in Family