i have a big problem, because i like this girl and i already asked her and she said no she didnt like me !!!! but the thing is that i gave her a love tap as she passed by me and then like 1 minute later she came back and asked me why i hit her but she said it with a smile and a grin at the same time. then 2 days later she walked by me and dropped off her stuff in her class and then walked behind me and gave me like a soft push and asked me why i was in her way and once again had a smile and grin on her face. Last time i gave her a note and i saw her reading it with her friend and giggling. I am not the most popular boy in school and she is popular. i think she likes me but wants to keep on the low. if she tries to flirt with me should i kiss her, and if what steps should i take in order to kiss her
2006-10-09 04:43:07 · 18 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love, love and love is the only answer.
2006-10-09 04:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on to your horses boy. You don't kiss until you have a date or at least have her alone. just take it easy and flirt it up, then ask her out again. Some girls like to play hard to get, and persistence shows you are really interested. Don't worry about the popularity thing it means nothing. Once you are out of high school you will see how silly it really is. Good luck
2006-10-09 04:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hymmmmmmmmmmm? Interesting. I'd take it slow. Sounds like she likes you...but she could just be playing with you. She may like you...but already have a boyfriend..so she can't act on it. Or maybe she doesn't want to get involved for some reason or another. I wouldn't kiss her unless it looks like she wants you to. Otherwise....you will be very embarrassed. The timing has to be right. For now...just play along and enjoy. One step at a time.......Life is enjoying the journey....not just the end result.
2006-10-09 04:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may or may not be playing games, you just want to be yourself . it sounds like shes flirting with you in her own way. perhaps because you told her that you liked her threw her off a little. now she has had time to think about it . and is showing you by pushing back, she is smiling so that is a Good thing. is she finding excuses to talk to you? she likes the attention that you are giving her.but may not want to come out directly and say so.
2006-10-09 05:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all you sound kind of young. but anyway...it sounds like she has a crush on you...i suggest you get up the nerve to ask her out, and see how that goes. how are you going to kiss her if you don't go out on a date with her? and make real conversation with her so she knows what your personality is like when you get a chance, not just writing little notes and tapping her shoulder when she passes by. i think she'll say yes this time.
good luck~
2006-10-09 04:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool man just kinda be yourself but not really try to get her to notice you in a subtle way if she starts getting closer then you should ask her if her mind has changed since when you asked her but if she is ashamed of you and wants to keep it on the low its not worth it because she is going to be pushing you aside to be with her popular friends but she has changed her mind just keep it cool no need for a kiss just yet.
2006-10-09 04:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by jebustheunkillable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss her. Probably be best to just stay away. Girls like these are just a tease. I know from experience. It's hard to resist sometimes esp if you don't get too many girls, but in the long-run it will be better for you mentally.
2006-10-09 04:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm why don't you just ask her on a date.. and see what the date leads up too. Don't rush anything to soon though because it can turn people off.
2006-10-09 04:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by kmichelle89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing with your feeling. Have fun flirting, but don't buy her anything or pay for any dates. Unless she pays first. So when she ends the little game, you don't feel like a total ***.
2006-10-09 04:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by dark_copernic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Don't kiss her or she'll give you a tap across the cheek and she won't be smiling.
2006-10-09 04:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by KK M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do, is say tell her you want to whisper something to her , as she leans in, give her a kiss on the cheek, the lips may be to formal , but a kiss on the cheek near the lips may turn her on even more , goodluck
2006-10-09 04:52:13 · answer #11 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋