I know this girl a couple of years whom I liked a lot and we were good friends too. We live in different cites. Few days ago I went to tell her what I felt and before telling I came to know that she was going around with some one else. I spent few sleepless nights and I thought that I should tell her what I felt and didn’t expect anything form her. I thought she will understand. But she talked very rudely and over conversation turned out rude. She asked me not to get in touch any more or try call or any stuff. My question is did I do anything wrong? I said that I liked her a lot and adored her and expect nothing from her.
2006-10-09 04:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look, theres nothing wrong with telling someone how you feel. granted she dating someone else and thats why she kind of freaked out on you. dont feel bad about it. if you told her you didnt expect anything from her than you did nothing wrong. if she is this great person that you claim she is shell apologize and probably tell you to remain freinds. if not, shes totally not worth it. dont beat yourself up about it.
2006-10-09 04:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by stavs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think that you did anything wrong, but, obviously, you could have done better. It would have been nice to end up still friends and leaving it open for later with the two of you, but at this point you can't go back and change what happened. Its nothing to condemn yourself for, but you screwed it up by not understanding her position. The best thing now would be to move on and start thinking about other girls. Next time, try to be more sensitive to the girls situation.
2006-10-09 11:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by FreddyBoy1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, its really akward when someone you see only as a "friend" gets mushy. It changes the definition of your relationship into an area she must not want to get into with you. I had a guy "best friend" that I could talk to about anything, we could go anywhere together, or anything. When he decided to get mushy, I cut him off, too. I didn't want to hust him any worse, or let him keep hoping for what would never happen. It hurt, 'cause I miss the friendship, but if there is no mutal "attraction" it just wouldn't work.
2006-10-09 11:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by justfeelingfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong bro, she is probably just freaking out. here is a prediction, she will call you just give her time.
Maybe she was just shocked by your revalation, and didn't quite compute the whole, i don't expect anything from you bit.
You did tell her that right? give her time, and she will contact you, if she doesn't then she wasn't worth your affection, either way it will work out the way it was suppose to, I know that probably doesn't help but trust me, if she isn't crazy she will come around.
2006-10-09 11:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really freaked her out or she might have already have a b/f and really wasn't interested in you in that way, but just interested in as friends. You probably told too much information that really scared her away and not want to talk to you. Maybe she was just looking for a friend just to hear her out.. I guess you blew that little tidbit. Sorry hun.
2006-10-09 11:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mistake was telling her that you did not expect anything from her.but its to late to change things now, she needs to grow up. give her some time and call her again and ask her what the problem was.
2006-10-09 11:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared the crap out of her! Now you need to back down and wait for her to recover.
2006-10-09 11:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by KK M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did nothing wrong and now you know she is crazy and you deserve better. I would have respected that in you.
2006-10-09 11:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats pretty deep! She must be on a differnt page. No I don't think you did anything wrong.
Peace :-)
2006-10-09 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by fthsunshine@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear ..u didn't do anything wrong !! find another girl who really loves u and respects ur feeling ... and ignore this dumb girl & don't show her that u love her as what she did to u ..
2006-10-09 11:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋