Trying to settle an arguement
2006-10-09 04:03:29 · 19 answers · asked by buddy e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are even asking this question it is because there is a doubt in your mind as to the conditioning, upbringing and the education the family in question has received and imparted. Some families feel that children are always their mother's responsibility and create completely useless, self-absorbed, immature adult individuals.
If YOU are the 32 year old son; shame on you for preying on the weak character of your mother and exploiting her to your heart's content! If you are the mother of such a useless piece of work, shame on you for not having had the sense to educate your son to mare conforming, logical standards of conduct.
If the son is disabled to the point of dependence then that is another story! But if the situation is 'normal' then that son needs to get a life and quit helping his mother ruin both their lives.
2006-10-09 04:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONE - apart from to be there as back up support in times of trouble as he should be for her.
HOPEFULLY the mother has raised the son to be an independant person & a MAN in his own right
the same would apply to a daughter of the same age
it is NOW TIME for the mother to be living her life
2006-10-09 18:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually none unless he has special needs and even then u could put him in indepenent care for his own sake,for social and life skills training. Otherwise tell him to get a life(unless u r in reality dependent on him ) for company for example.Just be honest with urself at that age for his own sake u need to cut the apron strings. Think grand children lol Good luck Curious 2006
2006-10-09 11:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless this 32 year old son is a retarded or inflicted with a disability whereby he cannot take care of himself, the mother has absolutely no responsibility towards him. Give your mom a break!
2006-10-09 11:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no responsibility to your 32 year old son he should be on his own by now
2006-10-09 11:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by angel13175 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no responsibility. he is 32. grow up. she should be there emotionally to support him. other than that, she has no real responsibilty to him.
2006-10-09 11:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT responcible for your 32 year old son.But,,a mother should always love her children but that doesnt mean she has to do backflips for him.
2006-10-09 11:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to recieve gifts and phone calls on mother's day, birthdays and anniversaries.
to spoil grandchildren and expect visits from them often
to be thanked for providing life and nuturing for the first 1/4 of his life
etc.....
2006-10-09 11:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love him and allow him to be a man. He's a man now and he is suppose to taken care of himself and hopefully his own family.
2006-10-09 11:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to advise him in any questions, or endeavors he may have, to support him endlessly, to love him and to remind him of the many life lessons he was taught while growing up.
2006-10-09 11:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋