this girl i'm dating she tells me she luvs so much, but then each time i offend her she will always threaten me, but after will apologise and even will cry . so i'm in a confused state if she really loves me. also, always ask me not to dsappoint her. i am really confused.
2006-10-09 04:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Complicated, that is the word for your girlfriend, hard to understand, you seems to be young, why don't you look for another girlfriend, life is complicated enough to have complications even with love, lets make that easier. ok good luck, you have to have relationships to be happy and have fun not to be having bad times. If she does not thins like that look for another
2006-10-09 04:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but she sounds like she is really possessive. She might love you but you need to be strong with her. My boyfriend is like this. DON'T BREAK. She might be like "okay fine we're over" but once she has time to think about it she will come back to you. YOU have to be the dominant one in the relationship or it will not work. I'm not saying you tell her what to do, just tell her "You are not going to threaten me or I will break up with you." DO NOT appologize to her if she threatens you for a mistake you made. If you accidentally offend someone you can say okay I'm sorry but don't appologize to her if she threatens you. Tell her you are sorry you didn't mean to offend her but if she threatens you walk away. Tell her also, "If you trust me, you should know that I will not dissapoint you. And if you don't trust me...then I am gone." If you cry and appologize all the time to her she will have her way in the relationship and your life will be hell. Also, it is VERY unattractive if a guy is "clingy" and really overly emotional and appologetic. Don't be a softy...it's very unnattractive and I guarantee you that maybe not today, or tomorrow, but soon she will break up with you because of that if you don't quit it!
2006-10-09 11:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, in what way are you offending her? If you are making her upset by calling her names, or doing something she doesn't like on purpose, then it is understandable for her to say things like that. But if you are doing something without hurtful intentions and she is getting upset about them, then you two need to sit down and talk about how to communicate better. Let her know that you do not mean to insult her. Most women do not throw out the words "I love you" without meaning it. If she is asking you not to disappoint her, you need to let her know that it is not your job to try not to disappoint her. That your job is to be there for her and love her, and if she can't handle that then I don't know if she is the right person for you.
2006-10-09 11:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-09 11:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by mihai m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time with her. Find someone else that does not play with your emotions. She just is not into you. You sound young so there will be others out there. Move on. Time heals all wounds and believe me it will. You may not think so at first but your will get over her and be more a peace with yourself.
2006-10-09 11:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being confused, but I don't know if I can help you beyond saying that you two just need to work things out between each other.
2006-10-09 11:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place, why do you have to go on offending her? why not ask yourself if you really love the girl maybe then you will know why she reacts that way.
2006-10-09 11:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... trust me, i'm the same way about this one girl i'm seeing... the exact same freaking way, lol, give me a give me a haller if you ever get your answer a'ight? a'ight
2006-10-09 11:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Paris, je t'aime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you i mean if a dude confused me i wouldn't know what 2 do . keep your head up..
2006-10-09 12:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋