I like this boy, (I've known him 4 four years) I just started liking him recently! Were in middle school and he's really popular. But he's really nice to me but some girls he finds annoying. He use to like me in elementary school, I don't know if he still does. Well anyways this girl likes him, and he knows. He also knows I like him but he's stuck on who to pick! The girl has only known him for a year. Please someone help me, should I leave him alone or go out with him?
2006-10-09 04:09:46 · 17 answers · asked by Des 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, this is a tough situation. I've been there before. Its hard to wait on the sidelines to see what happens. First of all, you need to evaluate why you like him. And if he is worth the pain if he chooses the other girl. There is a 50/50 chance that he will choose you or her. Also, make sure that you are not liking him just because another girl likes him. Sometimes that makes a guy seem more appealing. If you don't know if he likes you or not, the only way to find out is to ask. If he is not letting you know whether he likes you or not its either that he does not like you, or he likes you and is too afraid to let you know. Either way, I would wait around for a little bit to see what happens, but if its a dead end between you two, I would move on with my life! I know it sounds harsh, but its reality.
2006-10-09 04:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you go out with him if he doesnt know if he wants to go out with you? You are young so dont waste time waiting for him to make up his mind. Keep you options open and maybe you will find someone that is interested in you and is sure about it. If the other boy decides he likes you then he will still be there as a fall back on. Just have fun, you are a kid.
2006-10-09 04:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE knows how you feel, dont let him keep you waiting. Le tthe world move on around you and do as you would if he had picked the other girl. By all means, dont let him or anyone else "play" bothe of you girls off eachother. in example, dont talk mad dirt about the other girl or let anyone else start anything between the two of you. If he cant make a decision, he's not being to kind with your heart
2006-10-09 04:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by brightambitions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't pick then help by taking yourself out of the choices. The problem is when a person can't pick they really don't want any of the choices but don't know how to let the parties down easily. So take yourself out of the choices. If he's really likes you, he will choose you when you are no longer one of the choices. Besides you are in middle school and should be focusing on your studies.
2006-10-09 04:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this boy has to take the time to "pick" then you deserve better. it does not matter how long you have known him. he knows that you like him, so stop chasing after him, if and when he wants to be with you he knows where to find you. don't worry, you will get him. just stop chasing after him, your acting desperate. and im sure that your not. let him come to you!!
2006-10-09 04:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me before. My best advice (and what I did) is to drop him before you're the one who gets hurt. If he likes both of you, then he's not worth having. If he thinks that he can't have you, then you'll most likely be the one that he goes after! It worked for me!
2006-10-09 05:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him it shouldnt be a tough decision if it is dont waist your time guys are jerks in jr. high so just forgett about um wait for someone to ask you out dont be a door matt who is just waiting for a guy.theyllcome to you.
2006-10-09 04:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him date both of you! You can go on a threesome date if you are cool with it. If you both girls like him and he likes both of you, why not!! Have fun together!
2006-10-09 04:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by johnpoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get your hopes up - hope for the best but expect the worst - if he decides to choose the other girl over you then you need to be able to accept it
2006-10-09 04:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the resue squad and they can use the Jaws of Life
2006-10-09 04:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋