My girlfriend Just ended a 10 month realtionship She broke it off and came back 6 times the 6 months.Each time I get angier.It was great the first 4 months.I have a huge fear of abandonment.She came from 2 abusive marriages,Shes a teacher.Will I always be like this?
2006-10-09 04:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The on /Off again on her part started when I said I wanted to get serious.I was very verbably abusive to Her.Its OVER now
2006-10-09 04:31:39 · update #1
You are only 50?!!! Hells bells, I am 62 and have experienced the same thing even longer. We simply have to find another country to live in where the streets are paved with no problems type women.
2006-10-09 04:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you to have a talk with her and show her some reassurances that you are better than the previous relationships that she has had and that you are ready for something more serious,What more can you carry into a relationship that one of you have been abused,you are both there to give support to each other,especially at your age you may have seen it all but still get back into the routine of bland sex and monotonous dinners,do something that stabilizes her persona and she will straighten up,if you are that in love only you know her needs and can fill the void she feels,good luck
2006-10-09 11:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you let her use you like that. yes.
time to close up the revolving door and find a new gf. Import one from China if you have to but loose this flighty one.
2006-10-09 11:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋