I been w/ my gf for an year now. we been having so much issues that relates my ex. the story behind this is i live w/ her, her sis,bro, and 1 other guy. i went out w/ my ex 10-15 years ago and now i see her as my sister and a friend. my gf has hard time accepting this. we argue about it 2-4 weeks and i am sick of tired. i tried my best by making her feel comfy when she comes over and i treat her good to make her feel happy. i have no other ways to make her feel at ease....i really love her and she feels the same way too.. i dont know what else to do. i cant really move out since i dont really have the money too .. i thought about breaking up w/ her but i dont want to loose her.
any suggestions?
2006-10-09 04:11:30 · 3 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to let u guys know.. I am 32 yr old and my ex is 29...and she do have a boyfriend.
2006-10-09 04:13:37 · update #1
Well I can see her point and I can see your too. It probably makes her sick wondering what happens when she is not there and the lights go out! Try your best to make her understand and maybe between her and you, you can raise enough money to get a place together. If you and her are happy but you have one problem then get rid of the problem. Women can't stand their men living with another woman that isn't blood related. If you reverse it, and it was her that lived with her ex and you were dating her, think, how would you really feel about it? Would you wonder what went on while you weren't there? Mainly the mistake you made was telling her she is your ex you live with. That means you two had sex and still could given the right circumstance. I can guarantee it goes through her mind every night while she is alone in bed! Really you two should get a place together!
2006-10-09 04:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think that if you do not get rid of your ex gf (even if she is just a friend) then you will always have the problem with your gf arguing with you about this. If it was me i would not accept this as it must make her feel very insecure. If you really love her then you will get rid of your ex and put all your attention on your gf. Why should you try and make her feel at ease around your ex gf??? That is totally wrong!
2006-10-09 04:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO GROW UP AND QUITE BEING SO NEEDY, GUYS DON'T LIKE THAT. TELL HER IF SHE DOES NOT TRUST YOU, YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH OF A RELATIONSHIP.
2006-10-09 04:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋