Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

2006-10-09 07:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy have been dating since april 2006. he is 9 years older than me he has 2 older son's that are 17 and 19. i have two younger kids 5 and 7. my kids are very wild that's because my parents have raised them while i was working 3rd shift for almost 4 years, but now i know that i have to train them all over again about displine again. he is very sweet and he's giving all the time in the world to move it will probably be next year sometime. he was telling me that he is getting to old and impatient that he thought he can help raise them, but i have been telling him it will be a changelle starting over with younger kids for 3 months before he brought the new house.. what should i do? how can we work it out?Will i have time change the kids behavior before my deadline.. i'm really hurt and he saids he love's me and that he wants to marry me. i told him once i leave there's no turning back was i wrong to say that , because he still wants to date after i move out. what do u think?

2006-10-09 07:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by TOSHA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN SOMTHING!!!
ok my friend is mormon and i asked her why her religion is so wierd??? so like a week ago i called her on saturday and she said she was watching "General Confrence" like what the heck is that?
and she invited me to her church one time and all these guys were passing bread and water around like, what the heck??can someone please explain what that is?????

2006-10-09 07:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 in Friends

is a good cup of coffee really the secret to a good marriage?

2006-10-09 07:19:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I watched Tyra Banks talk show this morningand they were talking about different races dating each other.I don't have a problem with it, but I want to know everyones thoughts about it. What do you think when you see a black man and a white girl together. Or a Asian female and A White man. Let me know

2006-10-09 07:19:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is eight and complains if i ask him to tidy his room. Should he be doing this by himself now?

2006-10-09 07:19:09 · 53 answers · asked by jod97 1 in Family

or its just normal discharges?

2006-10-09 07:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you do when your husband pees on the toilet seat, the carpet and the sides of the toilet bowl?

2006-10-09 07:18:04 · 19 answers · asked by Gucci S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy and we have a good relationship but his pe nis wont stay erect and its becoming a problem he says its me I told him that he is 25yrs old and he need to get checked out. What should I do leave him alone if he dont get help?

2006-10-09 07:17:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is 20 years young and his girlfriend is 28? What's the average gap between couples?

2006-10-09 07:17:39 · 8 answers · asked by crazgrss 3 in Singles & Dating

I have 9 days off. Not a lot of money, but enough for a plane ticket. I don't have a boyfriend or a close friend who could get time off to go with me. I love traveling but not sure about going alone.
I am open to any suggestions, leaving or staying, I just need something to do!

2006-10-09 07:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

i got married 5 years ago in germany and want to get divorced.my wife run off to her home country brasil and i cannot find her. i myself live as german in the uk and haven`t got time or money to go everytime to germany to sort the divorce out. can i not get divorced here in the uk and all without the presents of my wife?

2006-10-09 07:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by THE POWERCIRCUIT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. As of late we have been having some arguments, but that’s all fixed up now. We are in sort of a long distance relationship, nothing major, but she goes to college an hour away.

I visited her this past weekend, and we had a great time. However, when she went to take a shower I was a little nosey. I read in her diary that she had a crush on someone in her class, and in the following dates in her journal she wrote that he is a refreshment of attention, because I’m not there and that she likes him. I also read that she plans to ask him out for coffee.

Should I be worried about this? I kind of hinted towards not cheating on me and everything over the weekend, and on the phone-- yet she swears that she would never do anything like that.

She leaves me messages and texts that she love and misses me so much, but I can’t get over the fact that she wrote that she had a CRUSH on someone else…and that she is interested in someone else…

Am I getting too worked up over this? Should I let her go out with this guy, and not say anything?

2006-10-09 07:16:49 · 17 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 07:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They live in a 2 bedroom and the sister has her own room. The boy could sleep on a futon but wants to sleep with his dad or at least the same room. The family is going through a divorce and have been living in an apartment for the last 8 months -- which is how long this has been going on for.

2006-10-09 07:16:34 · 9 answers · asked by jrterrierz 2 in Family

Ok, this guy is just too sexy. And there is such a spark between us. I'm not going to be able to help myself much longer. If I have sex with him this early (3rd date), is it a death sentence on a relationship? I'm 27 and he's 31, so we are mature adults...(if it's possible that a man can ever be "mature") lol
I'd really like the guys' opinion on this...

2006-10-09 07:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by cb4556 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together almost 6 years and married 1. We're 5 years apart and things in our relaitonship have always been good not that many bad went on, not even cheating. However, once we got married it was our 1st time living together so of course we had to deal with each others bad habits and now I'm starting to think that because of my jealousy and insecurities I might lose him. He's a pretty attractive guy and he's most of the time to gullible when it comes to women and how they come on to him where as I can see once they begin to like on him. This has caused all sorts of problems and I love my husband with all of my heart I just think that my jealousy is going to ruin my marriage. I check his phone records all of the time and get upset if I see a number and how long he's been talking to this person and even his recent list on his text messaging. Though he's never cheated why exactly am I feeling this way or doing things to the extreme?

2006-10-09 07:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 07:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my husband is 25. We have been together for 5 years and married for 2 years. I finished college, have a great job, and we own a 3 bedroom house. We will have our house paid off in 9 months and then we will have no debt. We are living a comfortable life. We have traveled all over and feel like we have done everything we wanted to do. We are homebodies and don’t feel the need to party or go out and are settled down.

We have been talking about starting our family for a year and know we are ready. I want to have 2 or 3 children and be done at 30. We want to try for a baby now and my mother has figured it out. She thinks 24 years old is too young to be a mother, but we don't. She said I should wait until I am 28 and I am giving up my youth at my age. I think she is bitter because she got pregnant at 18 (dating my father for a YEAR) and divorced at 24. We are trying anyways because its what WE want.

Will her attitude change? Do YOU think 24 is young to have your first baby?

2006-10-09 07:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm being harrassed by my ex-fiance and his new girlfriend.he cheated on me after he proposed to me.about 2 weeks ago he broke up with me,and on the same day he went out with his current girlfriend,but he says he never cheated.i see him in school and he gives me letters that he and his girlfriend write that have bad words and negative stuff towards me.Please what can i do this has been going on for 2 weeks.i can't take this no more.school is awful now and i'm in my senior year of highschool and can't afford to let my grades slip.I NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!

2006-10-09 07:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 07:14:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 07:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by Nyatonga J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a really really good girl friend...but somehow we always have arguements, mainly because I have lack of self-comfidents...
I always thinks that other people are better than me where she is keep telling me that I am not as bad as I think...now I am in a really bad siutation that she is now really upset about it where I just started another argument which the main reason is again that I have a lack of comfident to myself...I really want to stop this happeneing now, because I really really love her from my heart...
can someone help me please?? I would appreciate any answers...thank you

2006-10-09 07:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have reached the end of our relationship. I know it needs to end but i'm too scared to do it because I know I will be so sad.

2006-10-09 07:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by favteacher 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know girls complain if the guy can't get "it" up.

I'm not like that - its easy keeping it up - and I can have one climax after another b/c of my breathing techniques I learned in yoga classes. I love my woman and love doing it.

I like to do it several times a night when we are together - 4 to 6 times a night. Sometimes lasting 3 - 5 hours.

Is this "too much?" What's the most and longest you've gone for?
My girl says she likes it but its not normal.

2006-10-09 07:11:50 · 17 answers · asked by Kickster 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend well shes kind of my friend,well she is dating this guy,they r fighting though,i liked him b4 she started going out w/ him,but she does'nt know i like him.so if they break up should i ask him out,o ya and he's always looking at me diffrent then b4,cuz he knows i like him!!so do i ask him out,plz serious questions just say yes or no!don't say anything like,well wut about your friend,cuz she isn't like my best friend!thanx :)

2006-10-09 07:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 07:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 07:11:12 · 7 answers · asked by JOLIE69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

because i have been single for 6 weeks and i am sick of it

2006-10-09 07:11:04 · 4 answers · asked by jasdeep s 1 in Singles & Dating

that i'm used to..may be i can leave it after marrige but should i tell her or not?

2006-10-09 07:10:58 · 24 answers · asked by MIgnight HUG 1 in Singles & Dating