Ok, this guy is just too sexy. And there is such a spark between us. I'm not going to be able to help myself much longer. If I have sex with him this early (3rd date), is it a death sentence on a relationship? I'm 27 and he's 31, so we are mature adults...(if it's possible that a man can ever be "mature") lol
I'd really like the guys' opinion on this...
2006-10-09 07:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by cb4556 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure.
My girlfriend and I started out in a similar situation, except we did it the first night we met, and have been going together for the past 11 months.
2006-10-09 07:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex early in a possible relationship it could be possible that the relationship could get based off of lust. and that's not a meaningful relationship. Common in relationships is that people have all the sparks and the so-called love in the beginning but it soons dies off and then you regret even having sex with the guy. it's best to wait. Actually it's smart to wait.You don't even know the guy. you've known him for how many days? Your 27 think like your 27 not 18.
2006-10-09 07:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse the relationship can still be meaningful. Its just if you want the relationship to have a bit of mystery to it, by waiting for some time thats a good thing to do. It just makes for better memories. But if you just cant help yourself, then i dont think anything wrong with diving in. Just make sure that if you do, do it, dont forget about the other elements of the relationship before you had sex.
2006-10-09 07:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Phil-A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you really want to do it. But he will definitely change after you have sex. Men are all about the thrill of the hunt. So if you are going to have sex, you need to act like you are not into him as much afterwards. You do this to keep the thrill of the hunt alive. If a guy knows he has you, then you just become another trophy on the wall for him.
2006-10-09 07:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's sorting out you and you're failing miserably!!! What maximum females do is prefer to renowned if the guy is going to adhere around and be an prolonged term boyfriend. So, if a guy is prepared to adhere around for the 1st few weeks/months/in spite of if long without intercourse, he's a keeper. If he isn't prepared to attend, we are extra perfect off without him. Dont fail. Wait till she is waiting and feels preserve adequate interior your courting. in spite of if, the form you're speaking, if having intercourse together with her is extra substantial to you than taking section in her company and spending time and showing love for her, then maybe she is extra perfect off without you.
2016-11-27 02:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just an FYI.
When couples have pre-marital sex, the instances of a later divorce is increased.
When they live together first, the divorce rate increases by over 50%.
That suggests that the longer you maintain your morals, the longer you will be happy with him.
Peace, and Good Luck.
2006-10-09 07:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if a girl got down w/ me that quick i wouldnt date her...i would think anyone who gets a shot will end up gettin it. i usually dont mind waiting about a month. it will just make him want u more
2006-10-09 07:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better wait, or he will not respect you.... Do NOT throw yourself at himno matter How much you want to.... Men dont respect a easy woman.
2006-10-09 07:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah but it is better when you wait.
2006-10-09 07:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. don't make him think you are easy.
2006-10-09 07:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋