Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I have been with my husband for 8 years. And he has cheated for them 8 years.. I have now seperated from my husband,And I could not be more happier than what I am .. The man I have been talking with for 7 months flew down here to be with me.. And we made love for the first time. And I have to say I never thought I could ever feel so happy again and with another man at that.. I always have been devoted to my husband and he has never been devoted to me.. I finally realized that it was never my lose but his... And you wouldn't beleive he has asked me to forgive him and give him another chance.. I told him Heck No! I feel the reason why? he wants me back is because he sees I am happy and I am becoming more successful without him.. He asked why? I never wanted revenge on him.. I told him I did get my REVENGE.. And he said How I told him WHEN I BECAME SUCCESSFUL THAT IS WHEN I GOT MY REVENGE..I am happy and I want to stay happy and that is without him... GOD is GOOD all the time..

2006-10-09 06:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Living with a man for 2 1/2 years. He was obsessed with me the whole time. Recently he rented a house to a woman. She calls him daily but he hasn't told her about us (I told her). He says she makes him feel good about himself and that it is none of my business if she calls or if he goes to see her. Now, he's says I'm being obsessive/insecure/ and all that mess. Do I let it (him) go, )remember, I live with him) or wait it out? Do I withdraw my emotions from him and let him do whatever he pleases or make him make a decision? I've told him he had to make a desicision which one of us he wants, but he says he can't. What do I do?

2006-10-09 06:56:53 · 2 answers · asked by Cupcake 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The clerk usually thinks that I am buying games for a guy. I think video games are a lot of fun, why are they "for guys" ? Also, do guys like girls that play video games? Now, I don't mean shooting bloody games, I play games like Mario, skateboarding, Spiderman, the Sims. Please help me!

2006-10-09 06:55:35 · 21 answers · asked by bcrazycaroline18 2 in Singles & Dating

when I was 14 i was with a boy for a very long time. he was my "first love." he cheated on me and completely broke my heart. that has been two years and I am 17 now. I am so in love with another man and he is amazing. I never regret breaking up with the other boy. He has a new girlfriend. they have been together since march. She is 5 months pregnant and for some reason it is driving me nuts. I dont know why but i cry sometimes when I think about it. I would have never gone back to him because of how he treated me(with all the cheating and lies). but why do i still feel this way? I honestly love my boyfriend with my whole heart. I have never felt this way before... help please...

2006-10-09 06:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey girls do you like it better when a guy is extremely flirty and outgoing, or shy, nice and smart? (This is all about personality, not looks). I'm just curious because I am one of these and want to know...

2006-10-09 06:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went with a girl to homecoming last weekend and everything seemed to go very well. Yeserday, while talking to her friends, who by the waqy are really cool and i highly doubt they would lie to me about it, found out that she has been saying **** behind my back and that she dislikes me. Before i blow up, let me say this: I am and honor student and captain of the school swim team. She is not very athletically, socially, and aceademically inclined (to put into nicer words). So basically, I went out with a loser. Before askeing her to homecoming, i went in wiht an open mind thinking that she could be a really cool person if i got to know her. During the time before, during, and sfter the dance, I was reall, really nice to her. I gave her my jacket when she was cold, i was really sweet, and i helped her with things. I also defended her when my friends made fun of her. Her friends think that she is very stupid for doing this, cuz they say im the best she ever gonna get. wat shud i do?

2006-10-09 06:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year and we have one child. He has these two friends that are girls that he works with. I was visiting family this weekend and he had these two girls over at our house while I wasn't there and they hung out and drank and talked. One of the girls, who happens to be an ex fling of his, got too drunk (go figure) and he allowed her to spend the night in our guest bedroom. I'm completely bothered by this! Do I have the right? I feel justified! Also, any advice on how to handle this conversation with him or is this a deal breaker? Opinions welcome!

2006-10-09 06:51:53 · 28 answers · asked by Nancy W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am bloned haired blue eyed kid

2006-10-09 06:51:39 · 4 answers · asked by racinboy1990 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been gonig out for about a year, i dont really want to get her a necklace/ring.....got any ideas

2006-10-09 06:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by walkerschool101 1 in Singles & Dating

the women is to sexy to avoid.she does not even look very aged

2006-10-09 06:50:43 · 26 answers · asked by badboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 06:50:20 · 20 answers · asked by Bill L 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

It makes me happy when a guy i like calls me to tell me he's gonna be 15 minuts late, hugs me for no reason (and i ask no quetions) it makes me feel good to be in his arms, i dont need his kisses or any sex, all i need is his being near me. Am i crazy?

2006-10-09 06:50:08 · 46 answers · asked by sucrosan 2 in Singles & Dating

had a discussion at work , about people dating there own best friend. any one has comments about this? would u take it further a level than just best friends? and if it doesnt work out, can u remain best friends?

2006-10-09 06:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by devanarestylez 3 in Friends

But I prefer to shave every morning.

Would you say that men who shave their chests are closet homo's?

2006-10-09 06:49:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been told to her over and over about the problem but nothing is bring done about it.

2006-10-09 06:49:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i still remember all my friends

2006-10-09 06:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by chauhan raju 1 in Friends

how thick do you like them girls?

2006-10-09 06:48:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys like girls that have an abnormal skull?

2006-10-09 06:48:12 · 5 answers · asked by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 in Singles & Dating

hey girls and guys well here is my story i met this chick i really like her and we have not spoken since thursday, now i dnt know should i sms her first or not, but the think is b4 thursday we have been smsimng eachother for lke two weks and we were suppose to go for diner on thursday untill she cancelled because her cousin just got t her house to stay with her, now the thing is we kissed but i stil dnt know if she is intrested in me what do you gys thnk

2006-10-09 06:47:24 · 10 answers · asked by brian 2 in Singles & Dating

Im almost old but he is for sure old, He is retired and I still have school age children one is only 10 years old. anyway this guy is maddly in love with me and I could love him but he doesnt go to work says he has plenty of money that he made well in his youth but that wasnt his exact words, anyway I like a guy who goes to work everyday because that way you dont see too much of the guy and he told me his brother said to him ' why did you retire? your too young to retire? ' anyway the guy has a son who looks older then I do. and well should I tell him we may have a chance if he goes back to work or should I forget it because hes ooooooooollllddd?

2006-10-09 06:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

walk around your home naked? how often? is it ok? im doing it as u r reading this and it feels kinda freeing.

2006-10-09 06:47:01 · 4 answers · asked by Sharp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in a very healthy, happy, loving marriage. My husband and I have 3 wonderful kids (6 yrs, 18 months, and 3 months old). I met a man 3 years ago that I was instantly, intensely attracted to. I just had to be closer to him, so I introduced him to my husband, and now they're best friends. I have very strong feelings for this man, but I am happily married to my husband, and would not ever want to hurt him. Is it possible to be in love with two men at the same time, or is there something wrong with me?

2006-10-09 06:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by dizzy_daisy1530 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, i am a college going student. i am in my final year. and since now, i have not talked to a girl. i feel shy. i feel, maybe they will not like me. sometimes i think to break my this image and want to go and talk with my class girl mates but then when i really enters the class, one thought always comes to my mind, what will the girls say about me if i change my image from non talkative . so then i drops my plans to become open with girls. also, henever my friend and a girl will be talking and if i will be standing with them, i will try to interupt my friend and will want that girl goes away , i do not even say hi to girls. but this is my final year, so i want to enjoy, can anybody seriously help me out of this. can i ever become open to girls? plz, i need help.

2006-10-09 06:46:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does any one feel the same way?

2006-10-09 06:46:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 06:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Singles & Dating

My boss who I value as a good friend has a bit of a temper when it comes to work. I have been wanting out of here for a while now and an offer has arisen with better pay. My boss comes back from vacation and I have to brake the news to him. I need help!!!

2006-10-09 06:46:15 · 6 answers · asked by Cali Girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-09 06:45:48 · 2 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean when you have this immense love, appreciation bursting out for your sweetie, how to control in way that you can create equal interest in her heart to have a memorable kiss.

2006-10-09 06:45:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because i went on a break from him. i did that because my feelings were getting in the way of our casual sex so i needed to back off for a while. now we are back to distant politeness towards eachother but i can tell he is mad at me, we are friends after all so i know it bothered him that i took a month off. he won't talk about it and i am afraid to hear his reply. what should i do now?

2006-10-09 06:45:36 · 11 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short, my crush knows I like him, but now thinks I don't.He said to his friends he liked me and I am hot but he did not want to go with anybody in the freshmen year.He got dumped over summer.I have a homecoming this saturday, I have no date, but I know some boys are gonna ask me, but I only want to go with him.If he dosent ask me, should I ask him?

2006-10-09 06:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating