Hey girls do you like it better when a guy is extremely flirty and outgoing, or shy, nice and smart? (This is all about personality, not looks). I'm just curious because I am one of these and want to know...
2006-10-09 06:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is an interesting question and in all honestly, I cannot say one or the other. They both have pros and cons.
The smart, nice, and shy man gives off the vibe of being extremely respectful and kind to girls. The fact that he is smart says that a girl can have an interesting and meaningful conversation with him.
The flirty and outgoing guy is great too. Compliments and partying are what lots of girls like. It's hard to be bored with a guy like that.
But if I had to choose just one...hmm. I'd say the smart one.
Good luck finding your perfect girl!
2006-10-09 07:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends Jake.
Extremely flirty and outgoing guys are great if you just want someone to hang out with. However if I were looking for something serious, the nice and smart guy is what I'd go for. Once they get to know you, they turn into fun little flirts too after awhile.
2006-10-09 14:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by andi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jake,
All girls like all types and it is different for everyone. Every girl I know wants to be flirted with. So flirty is good to an extent, if you are in a relationship with a guy and he is flirty and outgoing with everyone then its not so good. Shy and nice is simple and sweet but girls don't tend to take the guys that our too nice and too shy, girls just want to have fun and if the guy is not a little adventurous then wheres the fun in that.
So somewhere in between is your best solution not to much but not to little.
Good luck
2006-10-09 14:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly..nice and smart... extremely flirty, is kind of a bad thing, because your girl may feel like you are harder to trust, but outgoing is good too, cause if a guy is shy, its kind of aggravating, not knowing what he is really thinking. so if you are one of these, maybe try and take one of each of the qualities and working on it, like being nice, smart and outing. If you are extremely flirty, know when TOO much is enough. anyways... so which one are you? haha
2006-10-09 14:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by yahoocraze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outgoing, shy, nice, and smart are good qualities. Being too flirty can be a little aggravating.
2006-10-09 13:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Honesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy, nice, and smart, because that is what I am, and flirty and outgoing guys make me nervous, and they seem to never settle down.
2006-10-09 13:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's attractive if a guy is smart, and shy and nice. I've always found that the guys who I can relate to intellectually are more attractive than guys who have nothing to say. For the shyness, I think it's cute but on the condition that they make the move to ask me out.
2006-10-09 13:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirty is good, as long as you arent doing it to other women while you are in a relationship...that can lead to jealousy fast..but between the 2 of you..its a very good thing.. But being nice and smart is a def plus with any woman!!..
2006-10-09 13:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it better when a guy is shy, nice & smart,
that's what attracted me to my husband & he's cute too.
( when a guy is extremely flirty he's usualy a
guy you can't trust, becuase he will flirt or cheat
behind your back)
2006-10-09 14:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say a mixture of shy, nice, and flirty. or maybe smart and outgoing. i dont know it depends, i guess. why trouble getting a date?
2006-10-09 13:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by retardedlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋