hi, i am a college going student. i am in my final year. and since now, i have not talked to a girl. i feel shy. i feel, maybe they will not like me. sometimes i think to break my this image and want to go and talk with my class girl mates but then when i really enters the class, one thought always comes to my mind, what will the girls say about me if i change my image from non talkative . so then i drops my plans to become open with girls. also, henever my friend and a girl will be talking and if i will be standing with them, i will try to interupt my friend and will want that girl goes away , i do not even say hi to girls. but this is my final year, so i want to enjoy, can anybody seriously help me out of this. can i ever become open to girls? plz, i need help.
2006-10-09 06:46:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all college guy...you think too much and you worry allot about what other girls are thinking. If a girl doesn't notice you, it doesn't mean they're not looking. You just haven't connected with the right girl there yet.
Just be yourself, be calm and collective and show these girls that you're a cool cat and not a brainiac who hits the books 24/7. Good luck to you college guy on your studies.
2006-10-09 06:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi rajan,i feel what u r going through.talking to girls do make some people nervous.dont be afraid,they r not going to eat u.talk to them normally like u would with any guy.initially u can try talking by helping them with their studies.be yourself,dont pretend 2 b someone else.good luck
2006-10-09 06:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Survive_each_Session 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start a conversation with a girl by saying hi and talk, if you just keep quiet, you're never going to get to talk to any girl or have any girlfriend.Also, tell your friends to introduce you to the girls they know, that way you get to know more people and build up your confidence.
2006-10-09 06:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way is to get into the thick of things and that will force you to overcome your shyness......JUST DO IT
2006-10-09 06:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by basport_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run aroung the college naked, that will show them your not shy.
But saying that when they see your weenie, will they want to know you?
2006-10-09 06:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋