because i went on a break from him. i did that because my feelings were getting in the way of our casual sex so i needed to back off for a while. now we are back to distant politeness towards eachother but i can tell he is mad at me, we are friends after all so i know it bothered him that i took a month off. he won't talk about it and i am afraid to hear his reply. what should i do now?
2006-10-09 06:45:36 · 11 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give up and leave him
2006-10-09 06:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i have interpreted your question correctly, you and this guy were pleasure partners, bed bodies, friends with benefits, whatever you want to call it. You should tell him that you were starting to get emotionally attached to him, which is usually the case with all these relationships and explain that it was for this reason, you needed the break. He is probably mad for two reasons, one he just needed the sex and was tired of waiting. Or two, he feels the same way that caused you to take the break from him.
Prepare yourself for the worst. You do not want to set up yourself for high fall when you tell him why you took the break the break, in case he is not responsive to you and just rubs it off.
2006-10-09 06:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 05:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it having sex is not really casual at all! Give him some room and when he is ready to talk have a long talk with him.
2006-10-09 06:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and tell him why you needed the break.
2006-10-09 06:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him why, he may think you have a another playmate, tell him you were getting close and needed a break, if he wants more that may be a whole new can of worms, be honset, goodluck
2006-10-09 06:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** up some more that way you covered all your bases and there will be no going back. >:)
I don't see the problem. It is what you wanted so eat your cake.
2006-10-09 06:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him- a woman who wants sex with no strings attached- he should be so lucky- and you need to do what you need to do- he can get over it or move on
2006-10-09 06:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let me know how you resolve this...im kind of on the same boat!!!thankz!
2006-10-09 06:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by He's my Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him for a dialogue
2006-10-09 06:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋