Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

2006-10-09 07:10:37 · 11 answers · asked by sheetal b 1 in Friends

i KNOW my boyfriend loves me, but lately he has been so terrible. He makes me feel awful about things i shouldn't feel bad about. Ex: I'm a HUGE fan of the beatles and yesterday we were at a school football game and there was a beatles cover band playing. I asked if he would go watch for awhile with me and he got angry and made a big deal out of it. It would have meant alot to me.I just feel like if he loves me he would compromise for a chance to make me happy like that.Things like this happen ALL the time and when i try and talk to him about it he misses my point completely and thinks i'm focusing on ONE solitary event...when it's really the problem as a whole. So he just claims he's done nothing wrong and says i'm being problematic. Things can be perfectly fine one second and the next he's angry about something. When we aren't fighting we have a very loving relationship.He treats me with such indifference and sometimes even like i'm his enemy.

How can i make him treat me properly?

2006-10-09 07:09:56 · 33 answers · asked by The Limerest 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think dreams actually mean anything? I have been dreaming about my ex boyfriend a lot lately, and also another guy that I had been seeing recently. Do you think my dreams could be symbolic of anything? They are usually good dreams and are of us being together, etc.

2006-10-09 07:08:26 · 7 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife just started her third job (it's the grave yard shift at a mcdonalds) so she works almost every hour everyday and i am currently unemployed and i am so busy looking for a 1 job that i don't have time to cook meals for the family so when she gets home for an hour from 6-7 she never has any food ready for me to eat and i work really hard trying to find this job and she can't even make a fing decent meal for me and our 3 kids. So my question is how do i get my wife to make dinner the one hour she's home doe s it need to get physical or wil the point get across if i just yell alot at her it seems to work with everything i yell at her about so any advice?

2006-10-09 07:08:04 · 16 answers · asked by tom 2 in Singles & Dating

I got dumped recently and I want to hear as many SLOW SAPPY break up songs as possible. Music seems to be the only thing making me happy right now. Well...and FOOD!! So if you know of any good make you cry break up songs I would really love it! THANKS

2006-10-09 07:07:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with this guy for over six years im ready for another baby an more of a commitment from him but i am gettin neither and when i try to leave him alone he keeps coming back i know we love each other but is that enough anymore. we fight all the time he never listens to my feeling no matter if i speak them or write them so finally i cheated to show him that i want more only showed me that i love him an he didnt let out to many emotion just says its not his any more please help

2006-10-09 07:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so a friend of mine and ihave tension...when we are together we hit on each other alot..shes been wanting to hangout badly for a few days now. in her last email i got today she was saying we should seriously hangout, and then a couple of sentences later she said she wants to get laid soon. does this mean she is hinting, or am i reading too far inbetween the lines?

2006-10-09 07:07:20 · 10 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I brush mines with the same brush I use on my hair, Is that normal?

2006-10-09 07:06:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does it run out? or can it play forever?

2006-10-09 07:05:48 · 14 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 07:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by u dont even know me 1 in Singles & Dating

because u mostly only se them on weekends because of parents.

2006-10-09 07:05:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boy and I has been together for 4 years and he want to get married so i told him we have to come clean with each other about the thing we did. so he did i found out he cheated on me over 200 time not because i was not good in bed or any thing but because he has a sexual addiction so he said. yes he been there for me thought every thing I concider him to be my family my best friend and this, someone please tell me how to forgive him because i don't know. I cann't do this
all my friend is tell me to forgive him but i am afarid that i cant. it to hard it hurts to bad

2006-10-09 07:05:29 · 24 answers · asked by doriabowen9 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 07:04:51 · 12 answers · asked by ljeh1983 1 in Singles & Dating

yes no maybe is not an answer!

2006-10-09 07:04:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what would be a sexy suprise for my boyfriend? we have been dating for three years now and i would like to give him something special yet sexy.


note--sex is out of the question :)

2006-10-09 07:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please be clear enough in defining this question. Its in general

2006-10-09 07:02:35 · 5 answers · asked by Agnelo P 2 in Friends

how can i check commputer logs ?

2006-10-09 07:02:22 · 14 answers · asked by imthisrosetoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I´ve been seeing this guy for about a month, we´ve kissed and gonne out. Now he is a party boy and I think he is not sure about me because he is intrested he calls me every other day and slowly he´s been opening more to me but I don´t what to do should I stop seeing him or should I give him time? He has never had a girlfriend, well he had one but it was a horrible expirience so, what should I do?

2006-10-09 07:01:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 07:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by tata 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean the guy is gay or something if he does?

2006-10-09 07:00:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 06:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by nani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like 5 dudes. They all are great dudes. If i could choose all of them than i would. But, I rather not ive been through alot and i just couldnt hurt anyone in that way. Its a hard choice for me because they all attend the same school as me. And they are good dudes. They all have something about them that i want in a guy/relationship that what makes it harder for me. I thought bout giving one a chance but i dont want to hurt the other one. Need a little/LOT of advice on this one.

2006-10-09 06:59:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend called me and told me that he just wanted to be close friends because he knows that he hasnt been there for the last couple of days because his best friend past away. he told me that he loves me alot and still wants to be with me but he wants to be by himself until he can get over his friends death. he wants me to wait then we can get back togther. we still talk like bf and gf. so what im asking is that should i wait? i really love him alot and i would do anything for him!!! ur answer will be very helpful

2006-10-09 06:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

but he continues to do so. (not harassing, but I am trying to get over him) He didn't want a relationship EVER with ANYONE and I do so we broke up, however, we can't seem to let each other go. Well I have asked him NOT to contact me in any way for at least 6 months. Last night I got this email from him (to which I did not respond):
"I don't know what your g%*d@mn problem is. You said you don't want me to contact you for 6 months then you get all shitty and post stuff on myspace. I hope your dates go well and you meet the guy of your dreams and he f#*%& what brains you have out. At least then I don't have to worry about your **** talking on myspace and I can forget about you.
I don't know what the **** is wrong with you but get over it."

Now I have no idea what he's talking about or why he's looking at my page! (we agreed not to do that) I am trying really hard not to respond..but I don't know wtf is the right thing to do?? Is this an attempt to get me to respond? HELP

2006-10-09 06:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by beautifully broken 3 in Singles & Dating

my son is almost 22yrs old-and somewhat immature-he takes meds for depression and anxiety-he had to be in work at 6am today-he called me at 7am and asked me to call his manager and tell him i needed him home due to illness-he has pulled this before-i refused because his reason was he was tired and needed to sleep-it became so bad i had to take the phone off the hook in order to try to get some sleep-i was so stressed needless to say i didnt sleep at all--he called back in the afternoon to apologize--he has the same temperment as his dad-my ex-husband--when they dont get their way-they threaten and throw things-i asked him why he continues to do this-he says he was just tired--i love my son--but i dont know how to help him-he sees a psychiatrist who pretty much just dispenses his meds-i suggested he see a therapist-but he says it wont work-any help to relieve the stress would help-thanks!

2006-10-09 06:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by yankeegirl 3 in Family

Ive been friends with this guy for A LONG TIME!...ive always known hes liked me...just recently we were in my swiming pool and things progressed..the relationship is now sexual....I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!>...but I WANT HIM!!...to myself!..i dont know what to do..its my fault for putting myself in the situation...i think he feels the same way to...hes in the middle of a divorce...so i dont think he wants to jump into another relationship...wich is fine with me!!!.we hang out EVERYDAY!...do all the gf bf things...do u think maybe he does feel the same way??..he pays my cell phone buys me TONS of things...when i get text messages from other guys he always replies to them and says im busy with my friend...HE goes thorugh my messages EVERYDAY!...do u think maybe hes jelous???..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!...should i just take a break from him?????

2006-10-09 06:58:26 · 5 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3 in Friends

This isn't meant to be a racist question BTW...just an observation I've made.

2006-10-09 06:58:03 · 2 answers · asked by dardekkis 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I cope? My gf is sexy but there are some really hot girls out there (if any are reading this "hey how u doing?"). If I got with the worlds most sexy girl Im not sure if I would still look?

2006-10-09 06:57:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If ur husband had a friend that u found out about, but they both say they never had sex. she however said they kissed, he said she kissed him. If i trust him, do i just believe him and move on, it's been a little over a year i have done all the spy work i can. i feel like i'm going crazy? If he did kiss her would he tell me. we are not living togather, but i miss him so much. i can honestly say i had no strange feeling that he was cheating, what do i do, he wants to come home, and have promise to never keep secrets again, please help.

2006-10-09 06:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to a gf and she said the loyal and faithful ones have another name: GAY..lol but seriously tho...sometimes i feel really lonely and want to go out with someone and when i do they are jerks...if you know where they are can you please tell me? thank you!

2006-10-09 06:57:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating