but he continues to do so. (not harassing, but I am trying to get over him) He didn't want a relationship EVER with ANYONE and I do so we broke up, however, we can't seem to let each other go. Well I have asked him NOT to contact me in any way for at least 6 months. Last night I got this email from him (to which I did not respond):
"I don't know what your g%*d@mn problem is. You said you don't want me to contact you for 6 months then you get all shitty and post stuff on myspace. I hope your dates go well and you meet the guy of your dreams and he f#*%& what brains you have out. At least then I don't have to worry about your **** talking on myspace and I can forget about you.
I don't know what the **** is wrong with you but get over it."
Now I have no idea what he's talking about or why he's looking at my page! (we agreed not to do that) I am trying really hard not to respond..but I don't know wtf is the right thing to do?? Is this an attempt to get me to respond? HELP
2006-10-09 06:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by beautifully broken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Silence is golden!! An ex of mine tried to do something like this once. I did not acknowldege him in anyway! Let him think he doesn't matter! THat his words mean s--t to you. And go and find yourself a REAL MAN!
PS My ex is living in a trailer in his parents' back yard. What a loser!
2006-10-09 07:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is having a hard time, but some people are better with a negative response than none at all. You don't know what you had till it's gone, old saying. Continue not to answer him and don't even post things on your myspace page. The key is not to bring him up at all, you are just fueling the fire. He is going to be shocked that you can move on so easily but he will soon get over it. Good luck.
2006-10-09 14:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hurt and misses you, but you do not want any contact with him... ouch... but you have your reasons.. as hard as it is.. do not respond, IGNORE him, he will get the hint. He is just trying to make you break your word and have contact... you can also try blocking his email addy from your account, that way if he does send correspondence to you it will be returned to him ... I am not very familiar with my space but I believe you can block him there too... good luck and just keep your cool as hard as it is.. he is just trying 'to push your buttons'
2006-10-09 14:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your page private so he can't see it and delete him. And he just said those things because he's jealous. If you don't want to talk to him then simply don't. It's not hard, and if you want to get back together with him, talk to him, you two might be able to work something out.
2006-10-09 14:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is upset, things did not turn out as he expected
have some compassion
talk with him and let him say everything there is to say
and you say everything there is to say
and then he may not even want or need to contact you - are you ok with him totally forgeting you and moving on? Coz once he is complete he will move on and ignore you honey!
2006-10-09 14:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. If he contacts you again ask him if it is necessary to get a restraining order and have the police visit him, etc. This will probably shake him up and he will keep his distance.
2006-10-09 14:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to get back together with you.
2006-10-09 14:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋