my boyfriend called me and told me that he just wanted to be close friends because he knows that he hasnt been there for the last couple of days because his best friend past away. he told me that he loves me alot and still wants to be with me but he wants to be by himself until he can get over his friends death. he wants me to wait then we can get back togther. we still talk like bf and gf. so what im asking is that should i wait? i really love him alot and i would do anything for him!!! ur answer will be very helpful
2006-10-09 06:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds to me like he needs a little time alone, without the added stress of a relationship...
yes, i think you should wait for him, in the meantime, let him know you are there for him as a friend for any support he may need and let him know you will wait on him.
2006-10-09 07:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, then support him and wait. Death is hard for a lot of people to get through. Be understanding of what he is dealing with. Tell him that you'll be there for him, day or night, if he needs to talk.
2006-10-09 07:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is extremely confusing because if you "really love him alot and would do anything for him", why are you asking this question? How can you be prepared to do anything for him and then wonder whether you should wait for him? What you have said appears to be contradicted by your question, because if you really mean what you say you wouldn't have to ask. You need to think about this carefully as it appears that you're misleading yourself.
2006-10-09 07:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him some slack. if his friend passed away he needs time to get things straight in his life. death is very hard to deal with. my mom passed away in 89 and i am still not over it all the way. i would think he would want you to be there for him though...
2006-10-09 07:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by elliemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is vulnerable right now - give him some space but don't cut him out of your life. He needs someone to talk to - just listen don't offer advice. He needs a shoulder right now, so be that for him. If it's meant to be it will work out.
2006-10-09 07:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ill wait but not forever
2006-10-09 07:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel if it is real love, then you should be willing to eait for him, no matter how long it takes.
2006-10-09 07:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by retardedlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋