yes no maybe is not an answer!
2006-10-09 07:04:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wonder how a boyfriend who cheats on you can be the perfect boyfriend for you. There's something wrong with it.
2006-10-13 06:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off the perfect guy wouldn't hurt you by cheating. Second Let him know it's not o.k. to cheat. If he knows that no matter what he does you'll be right there guess what...he'll keep cheating. In the back of his mind he'll be thinking "no big deal my girl loves me and she won't leave. I'll do what I want because I can"...meanwhile getting off while you wonder what you did wrong. (which you didn't by the way.) If you have no problem with it hey do your thing girl. Cheat on him too.Personaly if you love him that much Give him a second chance, but be clear that will be it or you and your heart will be out that door. Good luck.
2006-10-09 07:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by muzicizlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at this from the wrong perspective. IF he is cheating on you, then, by definition, he is NOT the perfect guy for you unless you are the kind of person that likes sharing a man. If you are the kind of person that wants just one man who does not have other women, then the perfect man for you is one that does not date other women. I think that a cheater is the most IMperfect partner ever. Why would you trust your heart, body, possessions and emotions to someone who keeps proving he is untrustworthy? As the song says, "Don't put your trust in the hands of a man who's no stranger to treason."
2006-10-09 07:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kit B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he WAS the perfect guy for you until you found out he was cheating. now it's not possibly true. if you can live with it, then that's strong of you, but could you still trust him ??
If you don't trust someone you can't have a relationshp with them as it's one of the most crucial factors in a healthy relationship.
Personally i'd have to dump him if i knew he was...he doesn't deserve a girlfriend who will sit back and let something like that happen - i'm not saying you did - but guys see things differently to us women!!
2006-10-09 07:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, the Perfect guy and one that cheats are never the same person.
How could you seriously think he is the perfect guy for you if he cheats??
Move on, if you already see that he's doing things to hurt you and your relationship, then get out as soon as possible. You deserve more than that.
2006-10-09 07:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by HotK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lol i am on my moms Answer thing and i am only 10 so yeah if he is cheating on you then you have to dumb him and tell him that you can't be with him any more or you can spie on him like follow him and see were he goes and if he goes some were then if you see what he is doing to who he is cheating to some one elas then you leave when he leaves home and then you go home and then the next day when you see him again you sould dumb him...then he'll feel bad that you dumbed him and he'll stop cheating in that girl and get back with you =]
2006-10-09 07:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy can bluntly cheat on you, then you can bluntly give it up unless you choose to deal with it for as long as you are in a relationship with him. As long as you stay, he will feel as though he can do it again, because his impression will be that you're not going anywhere. You have a life too. Enjoy it. If you are not married, it is easy to say "peace". There are many other men out there that you would need to date and find out about to make sure that you have many things in common. It starts with friendship, carries along with communication and is sealed by trust and love. Think and pray about it. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-09 07:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he can NOT be the perfect guy for you if he's cheating on you! He's not worth it, there's other guys out there that won't cheat, DUMP HIM.
2006-10-09 07:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there r many other fish in the sea. he might be the perfect guy but not for u and if he's cheating then your not perfect girl that he want to be with thank about it.
2006-10-09 07:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by TOSHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you, he's not the perfect guy. Yes, you should dump him. You deserve better than that. Love yourself! Give it time, you'll meet someone better.
2006-10-09 07:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Von 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋