I like 5 dudes. They all are great dudes. If i could choose all of them than i would. But, I rather not ive been through alot and i just couldnt hurt anyone in that way. Its a hard choice for me because they all attend the same school as me. And they are good dudes. They all have something about them that i want in a guy/relationship that what makes it harder for me. I thought bout giving one a chance but i dont want to hurt the other one. Need a little/LOT of advice on this one.
2006-10-09 06:59:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to figure out what you are looking for and then go for the one that most closely resembles the traits you are looking for. Or just hang out as friends for a time to see which one is really interested in you in more than a friendship way.
2006-10-09 07:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - let's understand one thing right up front. You LIKE all these guys but you ARE NOT in love with any of them. If any of them are pushing for more in the relationship, be honest, tell them you really like them but you aren't ready to commit. If you force yourself to choose one over the others you will find yourself regretting it sooner rather than later. Wait, stay friends with the ones willing to be just friends - eventually the real thing is going to come along and you will be so glad you waited. Besides - where is it written that you HAVE TO choose one? Is there some kind of law at your school?
2006-10-09 14:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by hoosiergal0946 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep em' all as friends. Enjoy the richness of friendship. You will only ruin it by trying to pursue a further relationship. Wait and be patient for the right one. You will know who the right one is when he comes along. Until then, don't hurt yourself or others by playing em. Just take your time and enjoy them as friends. If you have to ask which one, then it's probably neither. If you can at least round it off to two, you may have a chance of getting the right one.
2006-10-09 14:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt them! Wait until you find someone who has most of the qualities that you look for in a dude. Then settle for that one. Don't expect anyone to be perfect!
2006-10-09 14:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about the 5 "dudes" and concentrate on your school work and not getting a guy and then getting pregnant and ending up on walfare for tax payers like me to support because you wanted a boyfriend.
2006-10-09 14:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by bree30 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This might sound stupid but I had a similar situation but it was only 2 guys... anyway, I thought up a scenario that I was sure of how I would want my guy to react. I asked each of them... one got it right... we're still together!
2006-10-09 14:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey do what Flava Flav does, take them each out on a date...same date 5 nights in a row, and pik which ever one u like the most, which ever one flatters u the most
2006-10-09 14:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by andy2020@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just be friends with them sooner or later youll know who you like the longer you spend with them the more youll pick up on their good points and bad points you dont need to rush just focus and having a good time and not on who to pick
2006-10-09 14:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by shack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these guys are all friends with each other, you're gonna create problems. if they're just your friends, and if they're truly your friends, they'll just want you to be happy & be concerned about your well-being. and if they're not happy for you, then it's a good thing you didn't date them. never go for the jealous types. they're too possessive anyways.
2006-10-09 14:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by pureheart5110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do realize a "dude" is an infected hair on an elephants butt right?!
2006-10-09 14:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋