i have been with this guy for over six years im ready for another baby an more of a commitment from him but i am gettin neither and when i try to leave him alone he keeps coming back i know we love each other but is that enough anymore. we fight all the time he never listens to my feeling no matter if i speak them or write them so finally i cheated to show him that i want more only showed me that i love him an he didnt let out to many emotion just says its not his any more please help
2006-10-09 07:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i should have mention he takes really good care of the kids financially. and he provides when i ask or need. just no commitment. the kids are his world i would like to say that i am too and reason for being. its just we have our differences i want to complete my family and would rather not have any children by any one else.they love him i love him. help i need some really good advise.
2006-10-09 08:57:02 · update #1
you donot need any more children right now you need to find out what kind of relationship you and him have you see with the first three he have not ask you to marry him why bring another child in this relationship wait
2006-10-09 07:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Summer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total disfunction. There is no worse choice than to live with someone and not be married. He get's everything he wants and needs (as a man) and you don't get what most women crave the most--committment. That's why living together before marriage is wrong. But now you've quadrupled the problem by having kids AND you say you want another. Hopeless.
2006-10-09 14:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating isn't the answer for anything. If he hasn't given you a ring in 6 years and 3 kids later, he's never going to. You need to decide wether or not you can live like that. It really is that simple.
2006-10-09 14:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by brokeninthebox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is his way perhaps being married to the mother of his children should be ,there is no good reason why he should not be as committed as you are 3 babies and another on the way wow that is commited on your part i would say
2006-10-09 14:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a thought are you stupid please this guy doesn't want to commit and by the sound of things your just a baby making machine why would you want another baby by this person move on and dump him you deserve better and dont short change yourself by believing you dont deserve better because you do
2006-10-09 14:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by kayme42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you teaching your children by setting this example?? Straighten up, chickie. Live your life dependant on no man.
2006-10-09 14:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cheated to show him you want more?
Probably not the best way to ask for more. Unless you're looking for more misery...STD's maybe.
2006-10-09 14:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in the same situation..
2006-10-11 02:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by shellee80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋