How can I cope? My gf is sexy but there are some really hot girls out there (if any are reading this "hey how u doing?"). If I got with the worlds most sexy girl Im not sure if I would still look?
2006-10-09 06:57:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Join the ranks of all the other letches m8. God made man to ogle the women so don't feel you are doing anything wrong. Just keep up the good work.
2006-10-09 07:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone looks, wonders, and fantasies; your girlfriend does too. There is nothing wrong with it so long as you don't take it any further. I believe morality is attached to your actions not your thoughts, feelings, or desires. If your girlfriend isn't understanding then you should not to look when she's around. Try not to do anything to make her feel unattractive or undesirable.
Having an obsession is little different though. If you ever start to doubt you ability to remain faithful then you should tell your girlfriend immediately. Just calmly explain to her exactly how you feel and then decide what to do after that. No one deserves to be cheated on.
2006-10-09 14:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Narilka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are on a diet doesn't mean that you can't look at the menu. I'm pretty sure your girlfriend checks out hot guys too. It's human nature! But when you are checking out girls in front of her... that's the problem!! Someone who is going out with the most gorgeous girl in the world, probably still checks out girls. So, my advice: Checking out girls isn't a problem as long as you aren't doing it in front of your girlfriend to where it is completely obvious.
2006-10-09 14:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by xxfallenstarxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
for a start do u you love your girlfriend?
and for a second dont u think she is the world sexy girl?
ok yes there are alot of others girl and its OK to look
but respect your girlfriend there must be alot of reason why u chose her to be ur girlfriend, think about the good times, them u might think twice about looking at others girls, and how would u feel if it was the other way round?
anyway i wish u good luck , and i hope it goes well x
2006-10-09 14:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contragulations! You're a perfectly healthy American Male! It's human nature to look. That's the very science of attraction. Because of chemicals in the brain (endorphins, we ca't help but find certain things pleasing, and when we find something pleasing, we really can't help from looking at it. So, if you get in trouble, the question to ask is: Would you rather my brain didn't work correctly? That should work to settle her down!
2006-10-09 14:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Smoove B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to re-evaluate your reasons for being with your girlfriend in the first place. Do you actually care for her? Her being "hot" is not a good enough reason. Do you care for her or not? If you do, don't disrespect her by drooling over other women. How would it make you feel if you caught her checking out another guy?
2006-10-09 14:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with looking, so long as its nothing more than that. Also make sure you remember to tell your girlfriend that you love her and that she is sexy.
2006-10-09 14:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you probably would still look even then....it's that mentality of 'there's always someone better' or 'the grass is greener on the other side' you should consider that this attitude could prevent you from finding happiness and it's certainly not fair on your partner........having said that I understand where you are coming from.....
2006-10-09 19:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, unless you are totally besotted, you are going to look, unless you decide that you mustn't. for her sake. If you don't do that, then you maybe don't feel for her like you might. I don't think, unles I were with Linda Hamilton (the perfect woman), that I would be ablke to not look: it's only natural.
2006-10-09 14:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by ALAN Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can unequivocally guarantee that you would still look, men are visually stimulated and just because we look doesnt mean we are fantasizing or anything of that nature. And trust me on this also Women look too.
2006-10-09 14:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋