If he/she starts dressing differently, trying to improve his/her "looks", maybe even working out, acting distant and emotionally removed from you, making explanations for his/her behavior or has "other" things to do that don't include you, he's/she's cheating, maybe not physically, but certainly emotionally, which will eventually lead to physically cheating. Maybe he's/she's hiding his/he cell phone/calls from you? Maybe your sex life has changed or non-existant any longer? That's a pretty good sign. If you "feel it", you pretty much "know it". Women/men are intuitive, follow your gut feeling, it's always right on target.
2006-10-09 07:15:55
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answered by Cupcake 2
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Ok, I ran into this situation a month ago with my ex.... He was cheating on me to.
Even though you only see the person on weekends it is very easy to tell. The bond together on the weekends will be closer if that one person is just into you and nobody else. However if the person is not just close to you and is kind of like acting differently then they were back when then they are cheating.
Also trying to hide phones, being figity, fighting with you a lot, not returning phone calls, emails, or messages.
These are just some of the signs of a cheater,
also you need to go with uour instinct because if you feel as if someone is cheating on you then they usually are. Dont make yourself blind to it because you want the power!
Hope this helps!
2006-10-09 07:13:27
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answered by Nezza 2
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The signs are usually there. Most don't recognize them however. A new look at far as clothing is concerned. Even a new car. Cellphone calls at inopportune times, having to go somewhere when you're out on a date. Fewer and fewer dates or telephone calls. Always looking as though their mind is on anyone but you. excuses not to go out together, In a fog when together Wanting to take you home or you to take her home early because she has "to get up early" or"do homework"..and on and on and on...
If you think she is cheating watch her as though she is. Then look for the signs..
2006-10-09 07:13:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Wel it is hard to tell if you really only get to see them on the weekend. But if you talk to them during the week and they say i cant talk are they are in a hury to get off the phone then they are cheating
2006-10-09 07:08:43
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answered by Anonymous
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there is no reason to speculate- the first person is right... if there is a question in your mind about fidelity- odds are theyre right.
the only reason for an individual to stay faithful is within a marriage. dont give yourself to a person too early. youll loose yourself if you do.
2006-10-09 07:09:59
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answered by tbaby 3
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You wont know you just have to trust that person but if you feel like something is going on just talk talking always helps
2006-10-09 07:07:25
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answered by inluv 2
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once the relationship gets akward. if they're all of a sudden answering their phone in private or if you ask who is it and they avoid answering that question.
but in a relationship you need a lot of patience and trust. especially if it's a long distance.
2006-10-09 07:09:08
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answered by jascyapt 1
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if its a long distance relationship, their most likely to cheat if they know your not around or wont hear about it. if they stop calling you or always try to blow you off or never want to talk, that probly means they have someone else to talk to or "entertain".
2006-10-09 07:09:03
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answered by Anonymous
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you can feel it in there kiss there hug and a change that comes ....but you know and listen when they are talking..there are telling you ....keep your eyes open and listen stop it you all ready know ????
2006-10-09 07:12:55
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answered by ? 3
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well i had that happen to me,and believe me it's not easy to find out.best is to find out from friend that she is talking to.i found out when he dumped me and i talked to some friends of his.GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-09 07:07:40
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answered by jenny 2
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