Im almost old but he is for sure old, He is retired and I still have school age children one is only 10 years old. anyway this guy is maddly in love with me and I could love him but he doesnt go to work says he has plenty of money that he made well in his youth but that wasnt his exact words, anyway I like a guy who goes to work everyday because that way you dont see too much of the guy and he told me his brother said to him ' why did you retire? your too young to retire? ' anyway the guy has a son who looks older then I do. and well should I tell him we may have a chance if he goes back to work or should I forget it because hes ooooooooollllddd?
2006-10-09 06:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why do a few of you people think I am looking for a sugar daddy? and why does the one woman think we are all whores? the issue here is age and having too much time on his hands,. like what will he do all day around me. and well is he young enough to help out with my kids and go to ball games and camping and stuff? I really dont care about the money part, although I dissagree with the girl who said money doesnt matter it damn sure does.
2006-10-09 06:59:34 · update #1
Don't commit to anything and take one day at a time and see where it goes.
Questions to ask yourself: What bothers you that he's retired? Some people can retire at 50 these days with a nice nest egg. If you think this relationship could progress to long-term then do the math and where will you and him be in, say, ten years? Is that OK with you? and your kid will be 20, is that OK? and finally, is it a social stigma you fear about his and your age difference? or something else?
2006-10-09 07:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Hayseedless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, let's see. You want this man. He doesn't have to work but you want him to. So as I see it, you like having a man with money as long as you don't have to look at him too often. Gee isn't that healthy.
My advice, move on. Let him find someone that would love to spend so much time together. You should go find a work-a-holic. Maybe when he gets laid off and doesn't have enoug money in the bank you can remember a time that you could have been with a guy that actually had money. You don't love him... but he loves you.
2006-10-09 14:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him you shouldn't let that cloud your judgment, I mainly date older girls, because of a maturity issue i have and sometimes stuff like that comes into play, but it all falls back to how you feel about that person.
2006-10-09 13:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by cowboy59277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who care's about the age thing!! if u like him then be with him and maybe u could talk to him about going to back to work, just tell him how u feel. if nothing happens then just move on
2006-10-09 13:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer Sister GO FOR IT, we are all Ho's under the skin and money talks xx
2006-10-09 13:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your age?
His age?
His son's age?
Your motive's don't sound exactly pure - are you just looking for a Sugardaddy?
2006-10-09 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is just Follow your heart. And remember money is not important.
2006-10-09 13:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have answered your own questions with your statement. This is not what you really want.
2006-10-09 13:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number, and money doesn't buy happiness. be with whoever makes you happy. :)
2006-10-09 14:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by wikkedstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they way you say it sounds like you dont really love him.
first think if you really love him and if you do than go for it!
2006-10-09 13:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋