Living with a man for 2 1/2 years. He was obsessed with me the whole time. Recently he rented a house to a woman. She calls him daily but he hasn't told her about us (I told her). He says she makes him feel good about himself and that it is none of my business if she calls or if he goes to see her. Now, he's says I'm being obsessive/insecure/ and all that mess. Do I let it (him) go, )remember, I live with him) or wait it out? Do I withdraw my emotions from him and let him do whatever he pleases or make him make a decision? I've told him he had to make a desicision which one of us he wants, but he says he can't. What do I do?
2006-10-09 06:56:53 · 2 answers · asked by Cupcake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would let him go. If you are in a relationship with him, it is certainly your business if he visits another woman. As for you being insecure and obsessive, he's just trying to manipulate you into thinking that what he is doing is alright and your the one who's being unreasonable. Ask him how he would react if it was you who were going to visit another man.
2006-10-09 07:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by chr1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go, because he is not being fair to you. If he truly loves you with all his heart. He wouldn't be talking or even seeing another person. Apparently he wants to have his cake and eat it to. You know what is best in this world for you. Your life is in your own hands remember that.
2006-10-09 14:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by ELIZABETH Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋