I'm in a very healthy, happy, loving marriage. My husband and I have 3 wonderful kids (6 yrs, 18 months, and 3 months old). I met a man 3 years ago that I was instantly, intensely attracted to. I just had to be closer to him, so I introduced him to my husband, and now they're best friends. I have very strong feelings for this man, but I am happily married to my husband, and would not ever want to hurt him. Is it possible to be in love with two men at the same time, or is there something wrong with me?
2006-10-09 06:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by dizzy_daisy1530 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible to be in love with two people at the same time. People fall in love with someone for different reasons. The reasons why you are attracted and in love with your husband should be different than the reasons why you are in love with the other man. However, since you are happily married I suggest putting some distance between yourself and this other man so your feelings may have time to go away.
2006-10-09 06:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! You introduced the man you are attracted too to your husband.
Are you six feet deep in trouble yet. It may be cool and all to have the man you are attracted to so close to you and family but for those two to become friends, I smell trouble.
it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time, but you need to think really hard; you are a happily married woman with three kids, do you want to lose everything you work so hard for just because you got hit with bit of attraction that may be love?
2006-10-09 06:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by qemme0125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this.... You love all 3 of your children at the same time... right? Then of coarse its possible to love 2 different men at the same time!!! Its not unhealthy unless you act on those feelings toward the man who is NOT your husband. Not only will you lose your family that you have now, you will ruin the friend ship your husband has with this man. Be careful with the hearts of those you love.
2006-10-09 06:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame on you - you should have known that by involving him in your married life could only cause hurt in the long run...u should be honest with your husband and decide what it is you really want out of life...keep in mind your children that did nothing to cause this confusion
2006-10-09 06:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give your whole heart to your husband I don't think that you could love another. That is just one way used to justify cheating.
2006-10-09 06:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure its possible. but to have certain feelings and you know what they are well its called adultery. its adultery even if you don't have sex with the other man. all you have to do is think about him in that way. you messed up lady.
2006-10-09 06:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it probably is. But you must decide between the two loves and be sure not to cheat on either.
2006-10-09 07:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is why people cheat in this world
2006-10-09 06:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋