2006-10-09 07:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The foundation of marriage is true love. In love, loving and filled with love eternal. Pure, unconditional love. Absolute and unfettered.
Through love -- heart to heart -- comes passionate devotion to the joyous union. It is all that matters, and lovers gladly give their all in sweet surrender and together form that most perfect union, two hearts that beats as one.
Through love, and passionate devotion comes absolute dedication, and tireless perseverance, with both constantly learning and growing together, deepening and building on their bond.
Love guides them as they travel through life together, make a home, raise a family, live many long years together, grow old together always loving more and more.
All obstacles will fall before them, their love will carry them through the most trying of times, and they will always emerge from any trial yet deeper in love, stronger and wiser.
They will forever be guided by their hearts, and they will learn from their love how to live in love, and they will fill their home with love, have happy children who will know love, and their days will be many, and they will value each and every one, for they love and cherish all and always.
It must be love.
2006-10-09 07:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I've been married and divorced, then married again. The biggest difference between my first and second marriages is communication. My first husband expected so many things without letting me know, then would get mad when things weren't the way he wanted them. He would also keep things inside, then explode when they built up. My second husband is totally the opposite. It's not that we agree on everything, but we never fight. We talk it out in a non-threatening manner and find compromise. As long as you keep each other informed of what you want and can find a way to compromise, you'll have a great marriage. That's my experience!
2006-10-09 07:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Gretch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly i think of that i ought to be somewhat overdue answering yet i think of there are diverse factors which could make contributions to a effective marriage, yet i easily have self belief which you should be acquaintances in the previous the rest in this international. My husband is my superb pal. I tell him each and every thing and he has been my superb pal on the grounds that i became 12 years previous. i think of if it starts off from friendship it may in no way (properly not in no way, yet hardly ever) bypass incorrect. 2 people who're acquaintances already have won in there courting a ton of the flaws that make a marriage effective including have confidence, comparable gaols and pastimes, appreciate for the different, great communique with one yet another, comparable values and morals, and similiar tastes and personalities. of direction there ought to be an attraction to the guy as properly , yet i think of to many human beings concentration to lots in this high quality and absence in the different necessary factors. i'm unable to allow you understand approaches many situations I extremely have met people who will stay with somebody by way of fact they are "warm". i think of as time is going on you in simple terms discover extra issues previous actual splendor which you will replace into interested in....i'm useful that an 80 year previous married couple that has been married for fifty years has had extremely huge actual variations yet are nevertheless extremely interested in a minimum of one yet another. additionally i think of while human beings marry they should have a minimum of thought with reference to the incontrovertible fact that at age 80-ninety years previous they might not have the means to get actual anymore, so as that they should make useful that the guy that they marry is somebody that they are able to talk to and luxuriate in on yet another point, including someone which you have great conversations with. lower back i'm unable to allow you understand approaches many situations I extremely have widespread people who gets married to somebody by way of fact they "are great in mattress", the place could that marriage be after that component to it is long gone, if that became the only reason they married? Anyhoo, i'm probably getting off undertaking yet those are purely a number of the flaws that i think of make for a effective marriage Have a great day
2016-11-27 02:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, Honesty, Faith fullness and Trust,. Without those four things there is no foundation!
2006-10-09 07:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is this "successful" term?
men just need to learn to do what the woman says and sometimes even be a bit deaf.
Heaps of patience helps but it didnt work for me, not sure maybe I will try a different technique next time round.
Try good sex, often. Try being honest to yourself too.
2006-10-09 07:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would say strength and honesty. Marriage is not easy, but if you are both strong, committed, and honest with each other then I would say you have a great chance at making it :-)
2006-10-09 07:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1 TRUST
2not being the boss of each other
3 being a big enough person to admit when you are wrong
4 standing with your partner not in front of them
5 having God in your liefs
6 most important love
2006-10-09 07:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is not for the weak, the selfish, or the insecure.
2006-10-09 07:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Open communication along with honesty and respect for each other.
2006-10-09 08:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by funrdhdpeach 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's important to LIKE the person you are married to, as well as love them. I happen to be married to my Best Friend.
2006-10-09 08:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♥cinnamonmj♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋