I met a guy and we have a good relationship but his pe nis wont stay erect and its becoming a problem he says its me I told him that he is 25yrs old and he need to get checked out. What should I do leave him alone if he dont get help?
2006-10-09 07:17:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only time a man's thing does this is of he's under extreme stress or he has erection problems. I don't think it's you sweetie. It's him and he's very embarrased by this and wants to make it seem like it's not any fault of his own. He needs to really see a doctor to get help with this because he could have a problem and if he does he can get medicine to help treat it. He's not alone because there are many men that have this problem but they get it taken care of so that they don't have to go through uncomfortable moments like this. I was with one guy and he had this problem for about a month and we were going out for years and I was surprised, but it was the stress he was under, and once he stopped being stressed he was back to normal again. I don't know what your guy friend is going through or what's wrong yet, but let him know how you feel and tell him straight up that it's putting a strain on things and it can't be you. If he doesn't want to get help then do what you have to do. I know it sounds cruel, but as a human being we have our needs and wants and your no different. I wish you luck!!!
2006-10-09 07:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first ask how he knows it is you? Is he able to maintain an erection with someone else, currently? I would first discuss this issue, but if he said it out of anger I would not leave him but support him in finding out what the cause is. There are many medical conditions, medications, etc that can cause this. He needs to see a doctor to rule out if it is something physical.
2006-10-09 14:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by oracle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a Dr. He won't go by himself, Sneaky is right, especially for that problem at his age. You didn't elaborate, is he ejaculating early and not "resurrecting", or not staying erect prior to ejaculation? Good luck, honey.
2006-10-09 14:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is ashamed to admit this problem and is unfairly blaming you. Many men suffer this and there are now plenty of solutions. I would be supportive of him but if he contiues to stay this present course this is probably not someone you will want to stay with.
2006-10-09 14:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to get checked out. This used to happen to me and my girlfriend. Tell him to dump you and to start dating hot guys. Tell him hsi rod will stay erect 24/7 with them.
2006-10-09 14:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of two things: He isnt interested in you, or he actually has a problem which needs to be corrected with medicine.
2006-10-09 14:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by jamz2277 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him he is messing with your head... find a guy a lots out there that knows how seize the moment and treat you right
2006-10-09 14:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. how far are you going to go in life with this guy if you cant even have sex with him.
obviously he has a problem or doesnt find you attractive.
find yourself a guy that likes you.
he said it is you?
dump him please. he is 25 and should be able to control himself by now.
2006-10-09 14:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, take him to the Dr. Men aren't going to go ontheir own free will... load him up and take him in yourself.
2006-10-09 14:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip him some viagra
2006-10-09 14:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by drea g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋