i have a friend well shes kind of my friend,well she is dating this guy,they r fighting though,i liked him b4 she started going out w/ him,but she does'nt know i like him.so if they break up should i ask him out,o ya and he's always looking at me diffrent then b4,cuz he knows i like him!!so do i ask him out,plz serious questions just say yes or no!don't say anything like,well wut about your friend,cuz she isn't like my best friend!thanx :)
2006-10-09 07:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES!! you seem like thats wat you want to do so do it. Still think about what your friend is going through if he is acting that way with her what makes you thinl he will treat you like gold? just think hard about it before you do any thing stupid
2006-10-09 07:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew - it's pretty clear that you really only want to hear "yes," because you spell out that we shouldn't consider your friend's feelings because "she isn't like my best friend!"
Okay, so if we disregard your friend's feelings altogether, it depends on what you want. This is more about you than about him. You have to decide for yourself who you want to be and what is important to you here. If you want to date the guy, well, do you want to be the girl who asked him out while he was still in a relationship with someone else?
If they split, then he's fair game - but you'll have to decide if you want to be up-front about what you're doing, or try to hide it from your friend. It might be kinder to wait a few weeks after the breakup, but again, this is up to you, depending upon who you want to be here.
The best bet is to (1) figure out what you want out of this, and (2) figure out who you want to be and go about getting what you want in such a way that you'll be happy with yourself afterward.
Might not be a bad thing to think over your definition of "friendship," while you're at it - how do you want your friends to treat you? Think of it from that angle and you'll know how to handle this. Good luck!
2006-10-09 14:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't ask him out or go out with him.... You would be a rebound date and that isn't great... Even if you liked him before, he is in the midst of something else....
He knows from before that you liked him and he chose her...
end of story......stay clear of them both.....
2006-10-09 14:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she is a friend
2006-10-09 14:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by drea g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋