Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

My ex and n broke up bout 2 weeks ago.
He texted me and called me in the middle of the night yesterday.
I'm so tempted to call him but I know he's no good for me. He took me for granted and didn't treat me right. I don't think I'm totally over him, but I so want a better life with someone better! He's a girl's worst nightmare but he's not completely out of my mind. What am I to do? What does he want from me? He was probably drunk when he tried to contact me.

2006-10-08 20:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nemrac666 2 in Singles & Dating

Say there were a site out there that had various types of fetish videos out there that had a monthly subscription rate of say 5 bucks (if you were into this type of thing) would you subscribe. what if there were a seperate option to where if you email the "site" for 2-3 dollars you could get a custom made video customized to your likeing... would this be worth the money?

2006-10-08 20:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by simplycurious7654 1 in Singles & Dating

remember i went to fetch my results last friday and i was sh*t scared but thru urs and my prayers, ur positivity and thru God's goodwill, i pulled thru this one. im taking life very seriously now and no more playing around with it, its not everyday ur given a seconed chance. hope this will inspire some of u to take that initiative as well. thank u all for ur words of encouragement and may God bless u ubundantly...

2006-10-08 20:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by memyselfandi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 and I never had a boyfriend..never been on a date.I think I'm not ugly at all. there are many people that said I was pretty. I'm nice and funny too! Sometimes I just sit and wonder if anything is wrong with me?!? Even my sister who is 15 have a boyfriend! :[ Seriously what's wrongggg with me? When will I find the right person?

2006-10-08 20:41:32 · 18 answers · asked by lindaalicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend which is my best friend. She went around and told others my bad words... I don't know why she did that. I only knew that when she was avoiding me and I found out from my another good friend that she was telling others about my bad words...

I sent an email and scolded her and she apologized to me. I asked why she must do this to me and she did not even explain. Should I forgive her?

2006-10-08 20:39:29 · 13 answers · asked by karmy 3 in Friends

2006-10-08 20:38:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 20:38:21 · 37 answers · asked by sue s 2 in Singles & Dating

@ school I don't act really girl... could this be why I don't have a boifriend?
I am 13, blonde shoulder length hair, blue eyes, shortish, + some guys say I am cute. But they still don't 'like' me! HELP

2006-10-08 20:37:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone agree with the fact that if you take away the feelings of love,caring,and togetherness of a relationship that a man taking care of a women by paying this bills that it is the same as prostitution b/c it is basicly the same thing he is paying the bills and in return is getting s** please your in put will be greatly appreciated

2006-10-08 20:36:43 · 26 answers · asked by p-nut butter princess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how would u react to a guy who wears womens panties under his regular clothes? How about the entire female wardrobe?
Also .. what exactly would u do if u were about to have sex with a guy and he took his male clothing off and had panties on?

2006-10-08 20:35:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 20:35:00 · 11 answers · asked by pacificwaves8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I meet we chat socialy but when I try to tel her my intetions she dashes away,I'm astonished what to do to express my feelings to her.

2006-10-08 20:33:08 · 10 answers · asked by nelwysicky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 20:32:24 · 8 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Singles & Dating

I am wanting real answers cause i have feelings for both of these men and i dont want to hurt either one, even though i know one will be hurt. help

2006-10-08 20:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by kcnapiers2000 1 in Singles & Dating

What are words of encouragement and support should I give my boyfriend whos family is falling apart? His mom and dad is breaking up and he still has a brother and sister who is in school and now he is working for all of them (dad left and doesnt give child support, and lives with the other woman).
Our relationship is affected by this and he gets depressed... there is nothing else to do for him but be there for him. I should understand that there are times when he tends to neglect our relationship but I cannot blame him. I think Id be the same if I were in his shoes... I should understand right? What should I tell him? How can I help him get over this? I know in time things will be better, but he loses hope every now and then, especially when his dad comes over and messes everything...
I know its not my problem, but my boyfriend is my problem and I cant help but feel sad when he is sad... How to help cheer him up and not lose hope?

2006-10-08 20:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by joe_logs_a_co 3 in Family

Getting work as a model I have this new self confidence but the very thought of strikning up conversation with a stranger in a bar makes me panic and act weird. I have no idea how to go about and I'm scared that as soon as I try anything i'm just going to start rambling and stuttering. Also where in London is a good place for this?

2006-10-08 20:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yup, I found out he checked out my whole history of Q&A's recently, all the post about every topic, from oral sex to mascara that I've been posting since May probably?

I'm sick and tired of this, it's been a year and a couple of moths since we broke up... Why can't he get over it?! I tried to stay friends but this is absurd. This sh*t REALLY creeps me out! I hate feeling watched and stalked. How can I deal with this?

By the way, I've never given him any indication that I want to get back with him...EVER. I don't know if I even want him as a friend anymore. I just want him to stop bothering me!!! He still calls my house, my cell, my job, IM's me and emails me. STOP!

Honestly I feel raped! What can I do?

2006-10-08 20:29:34 · 11 answers · asked by cleo715 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 20:28:17 · 13 answers · asked by amgad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you dump a guy who refuses to break up with you?
Have tried but the guy wants to know why he is being dumped. I have tried to answer that question with every ans imaginable. He is a good friend, but how do i tell em that it wont work out? I have tried to tell him that i am with two other people but he still refuses to break up with me. i do not want to hurt his feelings. HELP

2006-10-08 20:26:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 20:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

women only, some dude answered it,,, isnt it just gay when a dude asks a question for women only, I mean can`t people read?????????

2006-10-08 20:24:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we have a very good conversation, but after exchanging contact info, I cannot contact her anymore. For example, I meet a woman who I think has class, we have (what I think is) a very good conversation. One thing I do do is to watch her body language and make sure I do not bore her otherwise I just leave it at that. But after we exchange info, and then part ways, I can never get a return call when I call or email her. Could it have been something I said or the way I said something? Could I have been reading her body language wrong?

2006-10-08 20:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by Man under fire 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing this guy who I like quite a bit, but I'm not totally sure how he feels. He says he wouldn't do anything with another girl but I'm not sure if I completely believe him. He's not the best at calling when he says he will (shock horror) and sometimes he seems quite blase about the whole thing. Considering we've only known each other for a few weeks, I don't know whether it's just his personality or whether he's not taking it too seriously.
I don't know if I should keep my options open, even innocent dates. He usually acts like he's into me when we're together, but he doesn't go out of his way to see me, I do most the work. Should I keep my options open while not actually dating anyone else, or just go with it and see what happens. I don't want to waste my time on someone who might not even be that into me!

2006-10-08 20:24:06 · 13 answers · asked by belle 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the senario:
Last Two years my best friend found out her hubby was cheating on her but he denied it as all cheaters do!


Anyways, earlier she found two condoms and it was a brand she never saw before.She left it there so that if he removed it she would know that he is cheating but she forgot abt the condoms and only remembered when she found out he was cheating!
The question is " is there a condom called "hot n spicy?"if there is she would leave him , for he tells her she was dreaming that she found condoms!
Also he found red marks on his necks n he said that he got drunk n ppl burnt him with a car lighter!Is that possible n the marks would go away two days after?
Thank you so much for an answer to a question of two years!

Additional!
She keeps hearing rumors abt him n when he was sick he confessed he loved her!when he got well he said he never said that!He keeps hurting her by not admiting his blame n shifts the blame on her saying she is cheatin!

2006-10-08 20:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

friends of opposite sex(i mean) If i love one of my friends should I TELL HER?

2006-10-08 20:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Gaurav S 1 in Friends

2006-10-08 20:22:50 · 3 answers · asked by soscili 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i heard that but im not im not planning on it or any thing i personally think its sick just wondering

2006-10-08 20:22:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that I like another guy. I would ask him what wrong and communicate with him..he wouldn't answer me (offline msgs) and then he just came on line one day and said don't talk to him whats his problem?

2006-10-08 20:21:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, me and this guy have had this casual thing for awhile now. Well, a week after the last time we saw each other, he text me. He wanted to meet up to talk. So I meet up with him and he tells me he didn't want a relationship but he can't not be with me. He wanted to know if I wanted to be in a commited relationship with him. After the shock, I agreed to give a relationship a try. Well, since than I have text him and he has not responded to my text. Normally, I would take that as a sign that he wasn't that interested but what he said and how he acted contradicts this belief. So is he interested or not? Did he really want a relationship pr not? I know it wasn't to get me into bed cause we've been there already. I'm so confused and a little p'd off.

2006-10-08 20:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by Nel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you find out that your boyfriend has becomes very nasty trying to ruin your life??

2006-10-08 20:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by alfa 2 in Marriage & Divorce