and we have a very good conversation, but after exchanging contact info, I cannot contact her anymore. For example, I meet a woman who I think has class, we have (what I think is) a very good conversation. One thing I do do is to watch her body language and make sure I do not bore her otherwise I just leave it at that. But after we exchange info, and then part ways, I can never get a return call when I call or email her. Could it have been something I said or the way I said something? Could I have been reading her body language wrong?
2006-10-08 20:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by Man under fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she gave you her number she was interested at the time. Perhaps after giving it some thought though she decided to back out. Maybe you aren't being clear enough in your signs to her. Perhaps your follow up needs some work. Keep in mind you are trying to sell her on you without lying to do it. Ask some of your female friends (ex-gf maybe) and find out what they say as I have never had a drink with you and you have never called me . . . you bastard. ;-)
2006-10-08 20:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Payne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to just relax and enjoy the conversation and not worry so much about reading her body language and impressing her.Just be yourself and if she doesn't like that well then you 2 would never get along in the long run anyway so no lose anyway it wasn't meant to be. Stop trying to hard, all you do is get your self all worked up and it might just be for nothing but here you are wasting all that time and energy when in the long run, if she can't handle you the way you are then like I said, nothing special will ever come of it except a short fling or something.Really not worth getting your panties in a bundle over even if is hard not to sometimes.Do you even know if the info she gave you was her actually her real address/phone number whatever?She may have just been wasting time talking to you then ? Something to do? Who knows?
2006-10-09 03:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are concentrating too much on making a good impression, and not really enjoying the company. women can sense these things. basically you come across as average, and women are looking for some substance.
2006-10-09 03:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible you are reading her body language wrong. why don't you try giving them your number. if they are interested then they will call you. the ball is in thier court and you don't have to stress about it.
2006-10-09 03:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have gotta figure out whether she is into u. maybe ur reading her body language wrong or there is something wrong in ur flirting.
2006-10-09 03:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were just trying to be nice but were not really interested in u. Maybe your trying to hard and they think your annoying. I'm not trying to be mean just honest.
2006-10-09 03:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly... you got dooped sweetie
2006-10-09 03:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have
2006-10-09 03:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by lava lad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes, girls are manipulating..........maybe it's not your fault........i don't know.....dare to ask her???
2006-10-09 03:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋