I have a friend which is my best friend. She went around and told others my bad words... I don't know why she did that. I only knew that when she was avoiding me and I found out from my another good friend that she was telling others about my bad words...
I sent an email and scolded her and she apologized to me. I asked why she must do this to me and she did not even explain. Should I forgive her?
2006-10-08 20:39:29 · 13 answers · asked by karmy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The bad words are like saying my weak points, call me names...
2006-10-08 20:45:16 · update #1
I wanted to forgive her, but in the other hand, i don't want. I just don't know why she must do this to me. I want her explanation but she did not give me. And now she is sticking to another friend that I think she likes very much, but she apologized and request me to be her friend again. I am now in a dilemma!
2006-10-08 20:48:03 · update #2
No, don't forgive her. If she will was your best friend she couldn't do this, but she did. She's not the onlywho want to be your best friend. Look around you and maybe you'll find another friend.
2006-10-08 20:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Spataru C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, u shouldn't be asking this qns, mate. U are the one who really noe the answer to this question. Try asking the voice within u. Do u really want to let this incident affect ur frendship, can u trust her not to do such things again, will u be able to trust her as before if u were to forgive her? Do sort of recollection of those bitter-sweet times u had had with her. Do u still consider her a friend? If u still find it hard to forgive her, then dont.
2006-10-09 04:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chee S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..I'm not sure what you mean by 'bad words'...but this girl doesn't seem like a very good friend, especially if you consider her your best friend. Since she did apologize, I would certainly forgive her, as long as her apology was sincere. But I'd be leery on what you divulge to her. She's broken a trust and that will take time to heal.
Good Luck
2006-10-09 03:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by katyzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, forgive her and patch up. it is the best thing you can do. if not what did you think? do the same thing on her? i hope not. you should forgive and forget and resolve the matter instead of dragging it on. after all, the fact she apologised means that she is sorry. after all is well, look over her and slowly correct her mistakes peacefully and with love to ensure she does not stray away and do those type of things again. forgive her and patch up, it is the best thing you can do.
2006-10-09 05:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why did she do that. If she couldnt give you an answer, just forget her. There are many friends out there. Just give her some time. She'll know that she's wrong. Life has to go on. Make more new friends. If she said sorry to you, tell her not to hurt your feelings anymore.
2006-10-09 06:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by mypurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a good friend, If you worship your friendship, you have only good things of your friend in your mind you must forgive her, A true friendship is one where it must not look on evils but only good things
2006-10-09 03:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Gowri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness will lift the bad things inside your chest. although, of course, it's hard to do right? don't rush yourself in forgiving. cry out your anger so that it'll release the hurt you felt. soon you'll just forgive her without even thinking about it. don't worry hon, you'll be ok.
2006-10-09 03:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, forgive her, but take her out of your friends list.
2006-10-09 04:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need an explaination before you totally forgive her. something had to make her tell on you. get to the bottom of it.
2006-10-09 03:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely forgive her- but that does not mean trust her-be careful what you say around her= take care=d
2006-10-09 03:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋