My ex and n broke up bout 2 weeks ago.
He texted me and called me in the middle of the night yesterday.
I'm so tempted to call him but I know he's no good for me. He took me for granted and didn't treat me right. I don't think I'm totally over him, but I so want a better life with someone better! He's a girl's worst nightmare but he's not completely out of my mind. What am I to do? What does he want from me? He was probably drunk when he tried to contact me.
2006-10-08 20:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nemrac666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't even worry about why he called...just know that he is your ex...and he is not of your concern anymore....i know its hard to keep yourself from calling someone you may still be in love with....but i think in the long run you'll being doing yourself a big favor just by not contacting him....because you may be right what if he was drunk? what if a girl answers when you call....or what if he tells you he doesnt remember calling you and if he did he didnt mean to...you need to take all of that into consideration....because that could very well happen when you go to make that phone call...and then there you are back at square one again....cussing your own self out because you made a stupid choice to call....if you ask me i think your doing the right thing, by staying away from him...so just keep moving forward and don't look back good luck!!!
2006-10-08 20:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this guy is still into you and by you answering his call gave him the impression that you are still interested in him. He probably came to the realisation of his mistakes and wanted to correct them but did not know how so he turned to alcohol in order to find an answer at the bottom of the bottle. You cannot forget a guy no matter how hard you try. So remember the good times you guys had and get out there and start fishing for a man that deserves your love and be sure not to make the same mistake twice. Be strong and hold your head high. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-08 20:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...your break up is certainly still fresh...I had a similar thing happen to me but it was months after we broke up. Most likely he was drunk, and possibly missing you. But it's obvious that he didn't treat you like you deserved to be treated, so don't be tempted to regain contact with him. Stay strong, it will take some time before you can get over him. There's someone better out there for you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-08 20:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by katyzta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever go back on a road you've already left behind.
He might want sex, or then he just was drunk and the reasons you broke up didn't seem so big anymore in his intoxicated mind.
But of course, if you did not break up properly and discuss everything then you might have to do that before you can carry on?
2006-10-08 20:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by johnpoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that u didnt call him back, because the same thing happened to me although mine wasnt a nightmare so thats why i was going back to him....well the best solution is to find another guy to set ur mind off from the EX sogo out flirt around find someone to chat around with but dont get serious and do not call him back!
2006-10-08 20:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if you say he isnt the right guy for you or you say you just aint feelin him then you shouldnt even care about his phone call but if you want to be treated like dirt then go ahead honey call him,god thats why i hate having to be in a relationship i mean how the hell are you suppose to know what tru love is??? is there even a such thing of true love i dunno you tell me..hey you know what why dont we chat we can talk about this ok heidi_garcia20@yahoo.com i have instant messenger so yeah please contact me we'll work this out together lol okkk!!! hope to hear from you
2006-10-08 20:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is fishing. Don't bite!!! Many men want attention and emotional support that they are not willing or capable of returning. You get points for seeing this and removing yourself from the situation. Don't respond .. or he'll keep you emotionally on the string indefinately.
2006-10-08 20:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by KatNip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he called for one of two reasons 1.Youve given him sex and he wants more or 2.he want to get back with you .If your over him Change your phone number and find the one you want.Some times we all make mistakes and deserve a 2nd chance but if you are not interested in him anymore do as i said find someone new.
2006-10-08 20:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you know he is bad news- it will take some time to get over it all- forget him and do not respond= if he was drunk he may not even remember= take care and guard your heart= D
2006-10-08 20:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. He was almost certainly drunk when he called you, filled with maudlin sentimentality or some such. He was a valuable lesson, one that you have learned. Move on and don't look back.
2006-10-08 20:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋